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Monthly Archives: January 2011

Marching on the Right Side of History

Our friend Dr. J writes at the Public Discourse that Defenders of marriage should draw hope and courage from the pro-life movement’s success:

As an advocate of conjugal marriage, I am often told that I am on the “wrong side of History.” The justice of “marriage equality” is overwhelming; the younger generation favors it; same sex marriage is inevitable. But this analysis is false. Indeed, there is ample reason to think that the March of History storyline will be proven incorrect. The reason? We were told all these same things about abortion.

… A funny thing happened on the way to History: the people did not perform as promised. Last year, I took a group of Ruth Institute students up to the West Coast Walk for Life in San Francisco. Official estimates place the attendance at over 35,000. But I wasn’t counting. I was looking at the faces. I saw what anyone can see, if they care to look: the pro-life movement is a youth movement. [Continue reading]

A gay writer speaks frankly about redefining marriage

Gabriel Arana at the American Prospect:

On Feb. 5, I'm getting married here in the District.

This has made me look at the gay-marriage debate in a slightly different way.

… [And] as I've planned my wedding -- making lists, updating them, and re-updating them; deciding whether we're doing a first dance (we are, though our dads aren't included); and whether we want to change our names (we don't) -- I've been confronted by the numerous ways in which we are, in fact, redefining "marriage."

… In the end, we decided to write the ceremony ourselves. But once I was faced with a blank Word document, I realized that while I have written numerous political articles about why same-sex couples should be allowed to marry, I had never thought through what exactly it meant on a personal level. From a legal standpoint, the meaning is quite clear: Civil marriage confers a number of concrete privileges -- tax breaks, adoption rights, hospital visitation -- that are desirable and, in the interest of equality, shouldn't be withheld from gay couples. Socially, extending marriage rights validates gay partnerships. None of these, though, seems to touch on the real substance.

Gabriel concludes: “Ultimately, I'm still not sure what marriage "means," but Michael and I can make it up as we go along.”

British Deputy PM Clegg says Stop Preaching about Marriage

From the UK Daily Mail:

Ministers must not ‘preach’ to parents about marriage or lifestyles, Nick Clegg declared yesterday – as he signalled a new Coalition rift on the family.

In a direct challenge to David Cameron he also dismissed the Prime Minister’s cherished plan for a marriage tax break – saying that Liberal Democrat tax reforms must come first.

… His comments stand in stark contrast to the views of Mr Cameron, who has repeatedly stressed the importance of marriage. In the run-up to last year’s election he said: ‘I just think as a society, saying that marriage is a good thing and celebrating it and encouraging it, including through the tax system, is something that most societies do in Europe. It's very sensible for us to do as well.’

Happily married wife testifies polygamy is 'really amazing'

From the Province:

A polygamous mother from Utah on Wednesday agreed to lift an anonymity order and testify using her name at the polygamy trial in B.C. Supreme Court.

… To date, much of the evidence at trial has indicated that polygamy is associated with harms to individuals, families and society as a whole.

But Darger, who describes herself as an independent fundamentalist Mormon who does not belong to a church, painted a completely different picture of her life.

Reinhardt Rebuked by Supreme Court

Kudos to Citizen Link:

In two separate appeals in capital punishment cases decided by the U.S. Supreme Court on Wednesday, Reinhardt’s 9th Circuit opinions were unanimously reversed (8-0, with Kagan recused) in language that accused him (and his 2 other colleagues, to be fair) of “judicial disregard”:

“[Judicial] resources are diminished and misspent, however, and confidence in the writ [of habeas corpus] and the law it vindicates undermined, if there is judicial disregard for the sound and established principles that inform its proper issuance. That judicial disregard is inherent in the opinion of the Court of Appeals for the Ninth Circuit here under review.”

URGENT MARRIAGE ALERT: SSM Bill Introduced in Maryland House

Maryland is already shaping up as a key battleground for marriage in 2011 – one of three states in which the Human Rights Campaign and their allies are pushing for same-sex marriage this year.

We need your help! Click here to send a message to your delegate and state senator today!

Just yesterday, Delegate Luiz Simmons from Montgomery County, along with 15 co-sponsors, introduced a same-sex marriage bill in the House (HB55), deceptively titling it the “Religious Liberty and Civil Marriage Protection Act.”

Only three paragraphs long, the bill protects neither marriage nor religious liberty. Instead, it removes the statutory language that has protected marriage as the union of a husband and wife, while paying only lip service to the existing religious liberty protections extended to clergy by the First Amendment and the Maryland Declaration of Rights. It does nothing to address the serious (and much more common) conflicts raised when parents are denied the right to opt their children out of public school instruction about same-sex marriage, when religious institutions are required to pay spousal benefits for same-sex couples, or when an individual is forced to choose between her profession and her religious beliefs.

Don’t let the Human Rights Campaign use deception and misinformation to push same-sex marriage on Marylanders.  Help fight back with the truth!  Let your elected officials know you’re standing up for marriage and won’t be fooled by empty promises to protect marriage and religious liberty while blatantly undermining both.

Here’s what you can do!

1.  Click here to send an email to your delegate and state senator today. Your email will also be delivered to the members of the House Judiciary Committee, urging them to oppose HB55 and any other same-sex marriage legislation that may be introduced this year.

2. Help spread the word! The best way to stop same-sex marriage in Maryland is through a massive uprising of grassroots opposition. Talk to your neighbors; tell people at church; and ask your Facebook friends to join you in opposing this new attack on marriage. Together we can stop this bill, but it’s going to take all of us. Use the buttons at the top of this message to share this message through Facebook, Twitter, or email.

Same-sex marriage advocates are already bragging that they have enough votes to pass same-sex marriage this year . . .  but we’ve seen that before. Just two years ago, same-sex marriage in New York was supposed to have been a “done deal.”  Same thing in New Jersey. But in both places, the legislature overwhelmingly rejected same-sex marriage after an outpouring of grassroots opposition to the bills.

Please, take action today, then help spread the word. Think about others who need to be contacting their elected officials, too. Then set a goal and start recruiting 10 new marriage supporters today.  Help keep the pressure on!

Breaking: Wyo. House passes bill against SSM

More momentum:

Wyoming wouldn't recognize same-sex marriages performed in other states under a bill that cleared its first hearing in the House of Representatives Thursday

Thirty-four members of the 60-member House voted for the bill sponsored by Rep. Owen Petersen, R-Mountain View, and others. It needs to pass twice more in the House before it would go to the Senate. [Associated Press]

Photo Essay: Marriage Traditions Around the World

Fridays deserve a more upbeat topic. Here is just one example from this beautiful photo essay:

A Korean bride and groom wear traditional wedding clothes. The custom of the bride wearing a hanbok and groom wearing gwanbok dates back 2,000 years. Photo: markhillary.

HRC Tells Catholic Gay Men: Church May Not Help You Live Your Faith

HRC is denouncing the Catholic Church in Colorado for offering a group support program for gay men and women who wish to live in accordance with Catholic teachings on sex.

Joe, so now running HRC--and Congress, and the U.S. Constitution--is not enough? You want to run Catholic parishes in Colorado too?

NOM National News: "Millions of Californians are bigots," for supporting Prop8

Great news: Prof. Richard Epstein predicts victory for marriage at the Supreme Court.

Who is Richard Epstein?

Well, Richard Epstein is just one of the most distinguished constitutional law scholars in America. He's a professor at NYU Law, and also taught for many years at the University of Chicago Law School.

He's a libertarian, and personally in favor of gay marriage, so it caught my eye when Prof. Epstein was recently asked what he thought would happen to Judge Walker's decision at the Supreme Court level:

"I think this case will lose,"  Prof. Epstein said--meaning Judge Walker will lose, that opponents of Prop 8 will lose, that Ted Olson and David Boies will lose--and that you and I and 7 million Californians will win this case if it gets to the Supremes.

I think so too, and in a better world you would see more headlines like this, counteracting the absurd drumbeat of despair the mainstream media flings at us.

I also enjoyed watching Prof. John Yoo at Berkeley Law School (brave man!) say that even though he personally supports gay marriage, he agrees that Walker's decision was really bad constitutional law--and kind of mean-spirited to boot.

Okay, I added that last thought--but here's what Prof. Yoo actually said: “I thought it was a really poorly done decision; if you read it carefully it says this law is so irrational nobody could have any reason to ban gay marriage, it's just a product of hate. Millions of Californians are bigots.”

Well, that's certainly what major gay-rights groups like Human Rights Campaign think.

I grow amused at the extent to which some of these organizations can just “make up” stuff.

HRC's latest email announces that NOM is outside the mainstream--just a few months after Iowans kicked out pro-gay-marriage judges, and in both states where legislators voted for gay marriage (Maine and New Hampshire) the voters kicked them out, flipping both houses in both states to GOP control.

At least HRC got one thing right: “Thanks to right-wing groups like the National Organization for Marriage (NOM), 2011 brings as much trepidation as hope” to advocates of gay marriage.

We have marriage fights brewing in the coming weeks and months in Iowa, New Hampshire, Minnesota, New York, Maryland, Rhode Island, Pennsylvania, Indiana, North Carolina--and possibly in Congress. Sadly, the Supreme Court on Tuesday declined to consider our case defending the rights of voters in the District of Columbia. It didn't say why, as it usually doesn't.

City councilmembers have arbitrarily taken away the right to vote laid out in the D.C charter--its constitution. We will be looking at all options, from future legal pathways to action by Congress, to restore that right. It's really outrageous, quite apart from the marriage issue, for the city council politicians to say they can amend the charter without the approval of Congress or the people of D.C, and take away a constitutional right to vote.

This week we also filed our NOM amicus brief in the Defense of Marriage Act cases now at the First Circuit Court of Appeals. (You can read it here). Here's the bottom line: we filed this brief because the Obama Administration has withheld an enormous amount of information which judges need to make a good decision in this case. The Tenth Amendment is not a “reverse supremacy” clause, giving state governments the right to impose definitions on Congress; the federal government routinely defines terms like “marriage” and “child” for the purposes of federal law. And in the 19th century the Supreme Court itself approved the restrictions on polygamy Congress passed, which included requiring several western states to forbid polygamy perpetually in their state constitutions. Kudos to William Duncan at the Marriage Law Foundation for his assistance on this important brief.

Pres. Obama's politicized Justice Department, under pressure from his gay base, have repudiated Congress's good reasons for passing DOMA, undercutting not only marriage but the prerogatives of Congress in this case. “Collusive litigation” is what Prof. Epstein called the Obama administration's actions in an earlier column, and the good professor was right about that too.

Congress is becoming an increasing focus of our work. The National Organization for Marriage held its first reception for incoming freshman Congresspeople at the Capitol Hill Club this week.

It was awesome! Thanks to Congressman Steven King for his leadership, and also to Mike Pence, who made an amazing speech--forgive me, I’m paraphrasing--about how there aren't fiscal conservatives and social conservatives, there are just people willing to stand up for the principles of the American founding. Those are the ones we call conservatives in this day and age.

(And to you brave and hardy pro-marriage centrists and liberals, thanks to you as well for sticking with us on the marriage issue!)

NOM has worked primarily at the state level in our first three years, but we plan to pivot to have a bigger impact on House and Senate races in 2012, as court decisions threaten to nationalize gay marriage.

That's all for this week. Please keep your prayers, your comments, your advice and your support coming. We are here to be your voice for our shared values.

With marriage fights brewing in the coming weeks and months in Iowa, New Hampshire, Maryland, New York, Indiana, Pennsylvania, West Virginia, North Carolina--and in Congress--I really could use your help to replenish our coffers, so we can fight on multiple fronts in the next few weeks. In these tough times, I know you have many other responsibilities. But if you can give today without hurting your family, your faith community or other important responsibilities, can you reach down and give $15 for marriage this week? If God has given you the gift of greater means, consider a larger gift of $50, or $100, or even $1000 for marriage. We will be good stewards of your treasure. With your help we will fight for marriage--and win!

France’s Constitutional Council examining SSM case

Matthew Hoffman reports:

France’s Constitutional Council, its highest court for constitutional issues, has agreed to examine homosexual “marriage,” and is expected to render a verdict within a week.

The case has been passed to the Council by the French Court of Cassation, the nation’s highest appeals court for non-constitutional legal issues, which received the case in November. Two lesbians, who have conceived children by artificial insemination, want to call their relationship a “marriage,” and are asking for the legal right to do so.

Continue reading.

Peter Berger: Gay Marriage and Pluralism

Peter Berger, a distinguished sociologist, ponders the question: after gay marriage, what next? The future is unclear but worthy, he says, of discussion, in this piece on "Virginity, Polyamory and the Limits of Pluralism."

Definition of marriage bill passes first hurdle in Wyoming House

Wyoming News has the story.

VIDEO: We’re all bigots now. (Prop 8)

When asked what he made of Judge Vaughn Walker’s decision in the Prop 8 case, John Yoo said:

“I thought it was a really poorly done decision. If you read it carefully, it basically says ‘[Prop 8] is so irrational, no one could have any reason to actually ban gay marriage, that is just the product of hate.’ So [Vaugn Walker] basically said a majority of Californians … millions of Californians are bigots.”

Source: NRO’s Uncommon Knowledge (includes video)

NOM Pledges Push to Restore Marriage in DC

"We are by no means done pressing this issue."
- Brian Brown, President, National Organization for Marriage

(WASHINGTON) - Yesterday, the Supreme Court of the United States denied an appeal by marriage defenders to the DC City Council's implementation of same-sex marriage.

Brian Brown, president of the National Organization for Marriage (NOM) pledged to continue to push for the right of District residents to vote on marriage as the union of a man and a woman:

"While we are disappointed that the US Supreme Court did not decide to take the case challenging the denial of the civil rights of District residents to vote on the definition of marriage, we are by no means done pressing this issue. With a pro-marriage majority in the new Congress we will explore a number of avenues to force the District to fulfill their constitutional responsibility to voters. As the four Court of Appeal justices who dissented in this case made clear, the District of Columbia owes it to the voters to allow them to decide the critical issue of marriage which has existed since before there was a District of Columbia. In order to curry favor with the same-sex marriage special interest group, members of the City Council have turned their backs on their own constituents. It is ironic that these same council members champion the right of District votes to be heard in national elections but then deny those same residents the right to vote on the definition of marriage. We will press our belief with Congress that the constitution of the District requires that voters be allowed to decide this important issue."