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Huge blow to CPAC: Heritage, others, join boycott

Brian Fitzpatrick at WorldNetDaily:

Two more big guns of the conservative movement confirmed today they are not participating in the Conservative Political Action Conference next month because of the continued participation of the homosexual activist organization GOProud.

The Heritage Foundation, the largest think tank in Washington and not known as part of the religious right, confirmed that it is not taking part in what has been the largest annual gathering of conservatives in the country. Heritage has been an active participant in CPAC every year for the last 10.

"We have withdrawn," said Mike Gonzalez, vice president of communications for the Heritage Foundation. "We have been there for many, many years at the highest level of participation.

"We believe in the traditional definition of the family," Gonzalez explained. "We believe in defending the family against any threats that come against it. We're not for gay marriage. We don't think institutions that have existed for millennia can be done away with at the drop of a hat."

Gonzalez emphasized that the "three pillars" of conservatism – economic liberty, national defense and social conservatism – are "indivisible."

Bishop Cordileone appointed chairman for Marriage Defense Committee

The new president of the U.S. Catholic bishops' conference, Archbishop Timothy Dolan, announced Jan. 5 that he appointed Bishop Salvatore Cordileone of Oakland, California as chairman of the conference's Ad Hoc Committee for the Defense of Marriage.

Bishop Cordileone succeeds Archbishop Joseph Kurtz of Louisville, Kentucky, who was elected vice president of the conference at the bishops' assembly in Baltimore this past November. [Continue reading]

WaPo: SSM in Maryland "Not quite a done deal"

The Washington Post is reporting SSM in Maryland is "not quite [a] done deal."

Remember, advocates said gay marriage was a "done deal" in New York and New Jersey last year, too.

To quote a smart man: "If it were a done deal, it would be done already."

There will be a big fight ahead in Maryland.

Same-sex marriage bills introduced in R.I. House, Senate

PROVIDENCE, R.I. -- With the introduction on Thursday of same-sex marriage bills in both the House and Senate, the battle now begins.

In the House, Rep. Arthur Handy, D-Cranston introduced his annual bill to legalize same-sex marriage in Rhode Island. The 29 lawmakers co-signing the bill include House Speaker Gordon D. Fox.

As she introduced similar legislation in the Senate, Sen. Rhoda Perry, D-Providence, said she hoped it would get a hearing and vote early in the legislative session. [Continue reading]

Why Men Hate It When Women Cry

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SSM Advocates Take New Tactic because "...words have meaning"

Rhode Island legislators push for same-sex marriage while New York group seeks to redefine the terms. Check it out.

The Social Issues Are Also Economic Issues

There is a great column in the NY Post about Europe's "Ponzi-Socialism."

Charles Gasparino makes the point that Europe's problems paying for its welfare state are twofold: high taxes drive out productive citzens and activities directly; they also drive down fertility, making it hard for married couples to raise the next generation of workers on which the economy depends.

Marriage News: Cussing Kids Vid Met w/Silence from pro-SSM crowd; Maggie Gallagher's "Economist" Debate with Wolfson; and Jon Stewart, the RNC Chair & the Marriage Question

How low will some gay-marriage advocates go?

Two weeks ago, NOM--and thousands of good people like you--called on national gay-marriage groups to stop using shocking images of children spewing angry obscenities to raise money for their cause.

If you have not seen the video, please do so. (Warning: Even with the profanity muted it's still disturbing, so please make sure no children can see.)

Thousands of people just like you have signed our petition to protect the kids.

NOM's “Pink T-shirt video” is opening a lot of eyes to the hatred-inciting tactics of some prominent gay-marriage organizations who've accepted more than $200,000 raised by this disturbing video.

We're asking: Stop using small children shouting obscenities to make your case and raise money for your cause.

Is that too much to ask?!

The gay press is getting nervous: One gay paper wrote: “The group's first video Prop 8 is H8: Straight Talk on Gay Marriage has been viewed more than 2 million times. But its frequent--some would say excessive--use of the word **** has divided gay rights advocates.” Adam Bink of the Courage Campaign's Prop 8 Trial Tracker (one of the groups profiting from the effort) says he “wasn't thrilled about (a) the strategy of using kids (b) how the video would present to the movable middle.”

But so far, not a single so-called “mainstream” gay-rights group has refused to accept the money.

This campaign is part of a new NOM initiative to take back our culture. Politics matters, and as long as gay-marriage advocates continue to try to push gay marriage in state legislature, so long as Republican elites try to foist pro-gay-marriage RINO candidates on unsuspecting voters, we'll be there to be your voice to fight back--and win!

But here's the truth: We need to fight the good fight on all fronts. We cannot always depend even on the network of conservative media to get our message out, to cover the stories as they unfold. Last year NOM made a great advance, with our “Summer for Marriage” bus tour, in becoming “culture creators” not depending on the mainstream media. Our new “Ironic Steve Jobs” video and the “Pink T-Shirt” video are part of this new initiative.

Gay-marriage advocates, with the help of a supine media, are trying to paint millions of good Americans as haters and bigots because we believe in the great truths of Genesis--and meanwhile the extremists and haters in their own camp go unchecked, because they are never called on the incivility of their tactics.

The Ninth Circuit punted the Prop 8 case this week back to the California Supreme Court, asking that state court for advice on whether or not proponents have standing to challenge Judge Walker's ruling in higher courts.

Here's the good news. The most liberal judge on the federal bench, Judge Reinhardt, called the case for Protect Marriage's standing “strong,” and he also once again rapped the knuckles of alleged superlawyers Olson and Boies for their tricky tactics that have complicated the standing issue. (They did not ask for a statewide injunction, but only in two counties--and in oral arguments virtually admitted they did this to make it harder to find a party with clear standing to challenge Judge Walker’s ruling.)

As I told the press, Judge Reinhardt clearly agrees with us about two things: It is absurd to imagine that a federal trial court judge can use the U.S. Constitution to wipe out the votes of 7 million voters--without any supervision or review by higher courts. Secondly, Olson and Boies are working overtime to prevent any higher court from reviewing their supposedly “invincible” case for gay marriage.

What this means practically is at least a six-month and perhaps a nine-month delay in the case. The elections in 2012 could be crucial in determining the makeup of the Supreme Court by the time the Prop 8 case hits.

The delay raises the possibility that one of the other marriage court cases circulating through the appellate court system might get there first. The Defense of Marriage Act cases are of particular concern because there is no one arguing those cases who really cares to uphold DOMA. (The Obama administration is only pretending to defend the law.)

In more Washington news, at the debate held this week on C-Span, all five candidates for Republican National Committee chairman said that they support marriage as the union of husband and wife. Thanks to Marjorie Dannenfelser of the Susan B. Anthony List for asking the marriage question on behalf of NOM.

Jon Stewart made fun of the debate--that's his job and we love him for it--but notice that while he reported Marjorie asking the question, he didn't bother to report the answers.

Maggie, who attended the debate, graded the candidates on their answer--giving top marks to Reince Priebus and Saul Anuzis.

We're expecting a gay marriage bill to be introduced in Rhode Island shortly. Gearing up for another great battle, working with Rhode Islanders who care about the future of marriage.

It's hard to believe that political elites in Rhode Island really want to have a big marriage battle given the state's serious budget and economic troubles. One thing is certain: They always schedule these fights as far away from an election as possible!

Over at the Manhattan Declaration site, Chuck Colson and company are promoting three upcoming dates: January 16th (Religious Liberty Day), January 22nd (Roe v. Wade Anniversary March), and February 7 to 14 (National Marriage Week USA). You can hear an amazing conference call which Chuck Colson, Professor Robby George, and Centurion Chuck Stetson did on the need to act to protect marriage, life and religious liberty here.

The United States Conference of Catholic Bishops just announced the new head of the Catholic Church's Defense of Marriage Committee: Bishop Salvatore Cordileone, the “godfather of Prop 8”! We'd congratulate him, but really we are just grateful for all the signs that the Catholic Church is gearing up to strengthen its teachings on marriage by putting brave men in leadership roles.

I hope you've been following the intellectual debate over marriage, which has suddenly heated up thanks in part to the groundbreaking essay, “What is Marriage?” co-authored by NOM's founding chairman Prof. Robby George.

NOM's current chairman has been debating Evan Wolfson this week over at the Economist online.

In both cases the amazing thing is how weak the arguments for gay marriage turn out to be, if you ask proponents to ground them in any coherent idea of what marriage is--and why the law is involved in marriage.

As Maggie writes, gay-marriage advocates cannot--or at least refuse to--explain any of the core features of marriage: Why only two people? Why is marriage a sexual union? Why sexual fidelity? Why not close relatives?

When you sever marriage from its roots in human nature, it becomes incoherent as an idea.

Maggie's whole debate at the Economist is well worth reading. (Or if you prefer to listen to Maggie, check out her hour-long debate at Oregon Public Broadcasting here.)

But let me share with you this bit from her last rebuttal (which I don't think has yet been posted--breaking news here!):

Maggie writes,

For Evan, opposition to gay marriage is rooted only in ignorance, unreason, hatred and bigotry. There is no reason at all that marriage is and has always been a union of male and female throughout most of human history, except a desire to make the lives of gay people difficult.

The sum total of substantive response to the concerns I've raised about how gay marriage changes marriage is his claim that permitting gay couples to marry no more changes marriage than permitting women to vote changes the meaning of “vote.”

For those of you reading this I'd ask of you only one thing: whether you support gay marriage or not, can you at least acknowledge what you are asking of those of us who disagree, who believe our historic marriage tradition is good?

To me, and to millions of other good people, a “husband” means a man who has taken sexual responsibility for a woman and any children they make together with their bodies.

Whatever Evan means by “husband” it is clearly something different. When the law adopts his view of “marriage” and “husband” something will be changed, for millions of people.

I think he and other gay marriage advocate have a responsibility, to truth and decency, to acknowledge that change, and to argue for it as better than the understanding of marriage we have now, rather than to pretend the change is not real.

Pretending that serious moral disagreement is “hate” is part of a strategy to delegitimize all opposition, to create an America where the great truths of Genesis are hate speech.

Here's my promise to you: We will not let that happen. Not without a fight!

And as you know, with the grace and help of God, the one thing about me is: When I fight, I like to win!

Pray for our new leaders, Democratic and Republican, that truth and love will in the end win out over lies and hate,

P.S. We're facing a powerful need for resources immediately--after an election in which we spent our last dime to achieve great victories. Can you help us this week by donating $50 or $100 to refill our coffers in preparation for the fights ahead?
Anything God has given you that you can spare without hurting your core commitments to faith and family, we would be most grateful for and promise to husband and use with great care and responsible stewardship. Please, can you give $5, 10, $15 for marriage today?

On Marriage and the Liberal Empire

Over at First Things, a thought-provoking new essay has just been published by R.R. Reno, on the ultimate political and philosophical implications for gay marriage: if they can do this, there is nothing they can't do.

A few excerpts:

"The debate about same-sex marriage brings the modern liberal project to a point of clarity. If marriage can be reshaped to accommodate same-sex couples, then there is nothing that the modern liberal state cannot redefine to serve its own purposes."

And more:

"Here’s the way Girgis, George, and Anderson put the thrust of Koppleman’s disagreement: “Against our view that marriage is a pre-political form of relationship (albeit one that the state has compelling reasons to support and regulate), Koppelman holds that marriage is merely a social and legal construction—the pure product of conventions.”

Whatever one thinks of the morality of homosexual acts or the role of same-sex relationships in society, this contrast strikes me as telling. Most who defend traditional marriage hold that our body of law should recognize the reality of marriage, while liberals tend to take the view that our legal system creates the institution of marriage, and therefore can reshape and recreate it as the democratic majority (or in this case a judicially empowered minority) sees fit.

In this distinction between recognizing and creating we can see the fundamental metaphysical question at stake in the same-sex marriage debate. Are there any stable and authoritative social realities—such as marriage—prior to or more fundamental than the legal artifacts created by the modern liberal state? Or is the Leviathan of the modern state the singular source of social reality?"

And he understands the deep connections between marriage and life issue--both instances of the state attempting to redefine primal human reality.

"If, as Koppleman and other liberal legal theorists forthrightly affirm, the modern liberal state can do with this fundamental institution as it wishes, then it seems to me that there is nothing the modern liberal state cannot redefine, reshape, or reinvent.

Creating and never recognizing—it’s a vision of political life that fills me with foreboding. After all, the human person, like the institution of marriage, is (thank God) pre-political, to be respected not remolded, recognized rather than subjected to redefinition.

But just as liberal theory so easily takes up and refashions marriage, I fear that an imperial liberalism will soon be underwriting a redefinition of parenthood and reproduction—the very origins of the human person and thus the inner fabric of our humanity. Not a happy future."

New Michigan Poll: Voters Reject Gay Marriage 50 to 38 percent

Not only do majorities of Republicans and Independents reject gay marriage, only 55 percent of Democrats support gay marriage, according to this January poll:

How Low Will Some Gay Marriage Advocates Go?

Two weeks ago, NOM -- and thousands of good people like you-called on national gay marriage groups to stop using shocking images of children spewing angry obscenities to raise money for their cause.

Thousands of people just like you have signed our petition to protect the kids.

NOM's "Pink T-shirt video" is opening a lot of eyes to the hatred-inciting tactics of some prominent gay marriage organizations who've reportedly accepted more than $200,000 raised by this disturbing video.

Watch the video, with this warning: even with the profanities muted, it is still deeply disturbing. Make sure no children can see it, please, when you play it.

And pray for the children on this video mouthing the hate- and obscenity-filled scripts adults gave them to say-hatred against their friends, neighbors and fellow citizens who believe that marriage is the union of husband and wife.

NOM's demand is simple: Stop using small children shouting obscenities to make your case and raise money for your cause.

Is that too much to ask!?

The gay press is getting nervous: One gay paper wrote: "The group's first video Prop 8 is H8: Straight Talk on Gay Marriage has been viewed more than 2 million times. But its frequent - some would say excessive - use of the word **** has divided gay rights advocates." Adam Bink of the Courage Campaign's Prop 8 Trial Tracker [one of the groups profiting from the effort] says he "wasn't thrilled about (a) the strategy of using kids (b) how the video would present to the movable middle."

But so far, not a single so-called "mainstream" gay rights group has refused to accept the money.

That's why I need your help today: Don't back down now. Now is the time to keep the pressure on, to spotlight hatred and incivility and to insist on minimum standards of decency.

This kind of video has no place in a civilized society. Fight back by signing the petition.

And please, pass this on to a friend.

We have a short time to make sure that this kind of hatred does not go answered. We need your help to win a victory for decency, civility and kindness in America today!

Jon Stewart Makes Fun of RNC Chairman's Debate

That's his job, and we love him for it. But here's the interesting thing: He doesn't dare show any of the ANSWERS that RNC chairman candidates made to the question "what's your best 30-second case for our marriage tradition?"

Kind of telling, huh?

Not All Gay Activists Support Gay Marriage

The Daily Caller reviews a new book, Against Equality: Queer Critiques of Gay Marriage, by queer theorists who oppose same-sex marriage. For more gays who defend marriage, check out Gays Defend Marriage.

Can Clergy Be Punished for Refusing to Perform Same-Sex Marriage?

We've believed the answer is probably "no". But in the LA Times last summer the lawyers for a presbyterian minister who is under trial (in church courts) for performing a same-sex wedding against church law, is arguing the law can pressure clergy who refuse to perform same-sex weddings:

Spahr's trial, which will be held in Napa, begins less than three weeks after a federal court judge ruled that California's ban on same-sex marriage is unconstitutional. And it underscores the awkward position in which changing civil law places many clergy members.

Although the Presbyterian constitution does not explicitly prohibit same-sex marriage, it defines marriage as "a civil contract between a woman and a man." But same-sex marriage is legal in five states and the District of Columbia and is working its way through the courts in California.

"More and more ministers are going to be put in a position where their church members are going to come to them asking for a wedding, and they're going to have to say yes," said the Rev. Beverly Brewster, Spahr's defense attorney. "Not to do so would violate many constitutional provisions about non-discrimination in pastoral care."

Follow Maggie's Debate with Evan Wolfson at The Economist

Join NOM Chairman Maggie Gallagher for her debate with Freedom to Marry Executive Director Evan Wolfson this week over at The Economist. Click here to follow the debate and cast your vote today.