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NYTimes: "Gay Marriage Vote Rises as Test in Upstate GOP Race"

The New York Times on pro-SSM flip-flopper Sen. Roy McDonald's race (the primary is tomorrow) -- they give our own President Brian Brown the last word:

Before State Senator Roy J. McDonald, a Republican, voted last year to legalize same-sex marriage, he told reporters that anyone unhappy with his position could “take the job and shove it.”

Now comes the test.

... his campaign has become a referendum on a single decision: his choice last year to cast one of the decisive votes that made same-sex marriage legal in New York State.

... “The more that the advocates for this are able to tell Republicans that you can do this and live, then the greater success they’re going to have,” said Robert J. Bellafiore, a communications consultant and former press secretary for Gov. George E. Pataki, a Republican. “But it’s hard to convince somebody to take their first bungee jump if all they see at the bottom of the jump is a bunch of splattered bodies.”

... Mr. McDonald, who was also once a state assemblyman, said he would not regret his marriage vote even if it ended his political career.

... At a debate on Tuesday night at Russell Sage College in Troy, Ms. Marchione attacked Mr. McDonald for his vote on same-sex marriage, and the audience was at its most boisterous when the subject was discussed.

Ms. Marchione painted the senator as desperate to keep his office, saying, “I guess he’s changed his mind about taking the job and shoving it.” She repeatedly suggested that Mr. McDonald’s vote had been motivated by the promise of campaign donations.

... “Regardless of what happens, it is an utter lie to say, ‘Vote for gay marriage; it won’t have any effect,’ ” Brian S. Brown, the organization’s president, said. “I don’t think any observer on the left or the right can say that’s the case.”

NOM Makes $500,000 Matching Gift to Win a Victory for Marriage in Maine!

In Maine the fight is heating up!

... Gay marriage opponents are also stepping up their efforts. The Roman Catholic Church has kicked off a series of meetings to promote its view of marriage being between a man and a woman. And the National Organization for Marriage has made a $500,000 matching contribution to fight same-sex marriage.

... National Organization for Marriage plans to spend $385,000 on advertising in the three weeks leading up to Election Day. -- The Associated Press

Australian Parliament Debate Indicates Not Enough Votes for SSM

GayStarNews:

A two-hour debate over a same-sex marriage bill in the Australian parliament today indicated that there is not enough support to change the law.

MPs from across the political spectrum expressed doubt over the passing of the bill, despite many saying that they support it.

... Labor MPs are allowed to vote freely on the issue but several are not supporting it, including chief whip Joel Fitzgibbon and the prime minister Julia Gillard, who was not in parliament following the death of her father this week.

Challenger Marchione Says Pro-SSM Senator McDonald Turned His Back on the Voters

Thursday is the GOP primary in New York and the Albany Times Union reports on one of the embattled pro-SSM flip-floppers:

"...[Roy McDonald] was one of four Republicans to break GOP ranks and do so, raising hackles among conservatives and winning praise — and money — from gay rights supporters.

"I did what I thought was right," said McDonald. "I've gotten money from all over my district, names you know, names you've never heard of, and all over the state. I'm a local guy, and I feel I've done a good job working on many issues, and my record is more than just minutiae."

Marchione opposes same-sex marriage. She doesn't contest her underdog status in the race, and sees the money that has fueled McDonald's campaign as coming from mostly out-of-district donors who enticed him to break campaign pledges that he would vote against gay marriage, as he did in 2009.

"It's an important vote for a lot of reasons, one that I hear about quite often," said Marchione. "When you turn your back on the voters, it's expensive to get their trust back."

Video #8: Minnesotans Voting Yes on Marriage in November!

In the eighth installment of this series, even more Minnesotans explain in their own words why they are voting yes in November!

Prof. Morse on Why California's Three-Parent Law Was Inevitable

Prof. Jennifer Morse writes in The Public Discourse that "The supposed need for California’s SB 1476 flowed directly from the drive to normalize same sex parenting and recognize same sex unions.":

Can a child have three parents? If California State Senator Mark Leno has his way, children in California will be able to have three legal parents. Before we dismiss SB 1476 as another example of California Weird, we had best look into it more closely. After all, the bill has passed both houses of the California Assembly and is awaiting Governor Brown’s signature or veto.

I believe this development was inevitable, more inevitable in fact than the much-vaunted inevitability of gay marriage. Once we started trying to normalize parenting by same-sex couples and redefine marriage to remove the dual-gender requirement, we had to end up with triple-parenting.

A deeper look at the whole picture surrounding SB 1476 reveals that not only should the three-parent law fail, same-sex “marriage” should fail as well. As we will see, embedded in this bill is an appalling power-grab by the state, and a grotesque misrepresentation of the facts by the bill’s authors.

Massachusetts Gay Couple Sue Bishop Over Dropped Plan to Host Same-Sex Weddings on Purchased Property

The Boston Globe:

James Fairbanks and Alain Beret, married business partners from Sutton, had been searching for the perfect property for nearly two years when they discovered Oakhurst, an aging mansion on 26 beautiful acres in Northbridge. The former retreat center, which was affiliated with the Diocese of Worcester and had been on the market for some time, would be the ideal spot for their next venture: an inn that would host weddings and other big events.

When the Diocese of Worcester unexpectedly dropped out of negotiations with them in June, Fairbanks and Beret were shocked — and flummoxed. Then, they say, a church attorney inadvertently forwarded their broker an e-mail from Monsignor Thomas Sullivan, chancellor of the diocese, advising a church broker that he was no longer interested in selling to Fairbanks and Beret “because of a potentiality of gay marriages” there.

Beret, 59, and Fairbanks, 57, plan to file a lawsuit Monday morning in Worcester Superior Court against Sullivan, the bishop, the church’s real estate agent, and the nonprofit retreat center, the House of Affirmation, alleging they discriminated against Beret and Fairbanks on the basis of sexual orientation in the course of a real estate negotiation, violating state law.

“I have lived quietly in the mainstream for nearly 60 years, and I expected to continue that,” Beret said in an interview yesterday. “But I will not continue that at the expense of my dignity.”

Sullivan, in a phone interview yesterday, said he did not even know Fairbanks and Beret were gay, and that his e-mail was taken out of context. The talks fizzled, he said, because the men could not secure financing for their first offer, and their second offer was unacceptable to the church.

“They didn’t have the money, that was it,” he said.

It was not until weeks after the financing fell through, he said, that the church’s broker told him that, in her presence, Fairbanks and Beret had mentioned hosting same-sex weddings at Oakhurst.

Sullivan said, however, that the church, as a matter of policy, will not sell properties where Masses have been celebrated to people who plan to host same-sex weddings. The church will not sell to developers who plan to transform them into abortion clinics either, he said — or to bars, lounges, or other kinds of uses that church officials deem inappropriate.

“We wouldn’t sell our churches and our properties to any of a number of things that would reflect badly on the church,” he said. “These buildings are sacred to the memory of Catholics.”

Marriage Amendment Campaigns Court Minnesota Muslims

StarTribune:

Winnie Okafor went to Tawfiq Islamic Center in north Minneapolis on Friday stumping for yes votes for the proposed constitutional amendment to ban gay marriage. The Rev. Grant Stevensen was at the opposition headquarters, working with young Muslim staffers to get out the no vote.

As Minnesota's Muslim population grows, both sides of the marriage amendment debate are vying to tap their growing activism and win over an estimated 50,000 potential voters.

... At the Muslim worship center at the Somali Mall in south Minneapolis, men and women signed petitions pledging to vote for the amendment. The mothers among the worshippers tried to quiet their young children with snacks while they listened to Okafor.

As a community relations coordinator for Minnesota for Marriage, the main group campaigning for the amendment, Okafor said she has attended mosque prayer services in the Twin Cities area like the one at the Somali Mall to encourage Muslims to vote for the amendment.

"We're getting good support from them ... both from the members of these mosques and also the imams," she said. "We're getting people signing our pledge forms. It's a big deal, because you're getting the voter to think ahead to what they're going to do in November.

"I think a lot of them are really sensitive to ... what becomes of the way we can raise our children when marriage is defined contrary to something our faith holds so dear."

Senator McDonald's Resume Needs Updating

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Recently, I read a letter to the editor from a local New York paper—The Record from Troy, NY—that posed a great question. The author said he's been receiving mailings from Senator Roy McDonald's campaign trumpeting his accomplishments in office, but with one conspicuous omission from the list—namely, the Senator's vote to legalize same-sex marriage. The author thought this was strange, since McDonald had claimed that taking political favors and money in exchange for his vote on this issue was "the right thing to do." If it was the right thing to do, why not celebrate it and advertise it?

Well, the reason is clear: McDonald, like his fellow Senator Mark Grisanti, knows that imposing same-sex marriage on the people of New York was the wrong thing to do—both ethically and politically. And these corrupt politicians are hoping voters forget their betrayal, so they won't have to face the music on Primary Day this Thursday. But voter's haven't forgotten, and they're cuing up the orchestra to play these clowns off the stage!

Will you help us with your urgently-needed, immediate contribution of $25, $50, or $100 today, so that we can redouble our efforts on your behalf in the final hours leading up to this crucially important primary election?

Without your immediate help, we can't put the necessary resources in place in these critical last hours to make sure that Senators McDonald and Grisanti get sent packing even before the general election. We're prepared to continue fighting on your behalf all the way through November, but we have an opportunity to send the message this week that the people of New York stand for traditional marriage and won't be bullied by greedy, out-of-touch politicians.

The NOM PAC NY has the message and strategy necessary to get the word out to New York voters so that they remember this election day how their elected representatives betrayed them last year in Albany, when they took Mayor Bloomberg's favors and funds in exchange for their votes to impose a redefinition of marriage on the Empire State! We're kicking into high gear with targeted phone calls and mailings between now and Thursday to ensure that New York residents hear this important message!

But we can't get this word out unless you send us your generous contribution today! Please help us with your critical donation of $25, $50, or $100 now so that we don't lose this important opportunity to oust these two treacherous Senators from office!

The elite fat-cats in Albany betrayed the voters of New York and imposed same-sex marriage on the State without even considering letting the people vote. Well, in this election, you get to vote whether they like it or not. Stand up with your fellow New Yorker's this Thursday and cast your vote for family, for marriage, for religious liberty, and for politicians being accountable to those who got them elected instead of to those who offer to fill their coffers while in office! Stand for marriage this week! Get out the vote!

Video: Brian Brown to Iowa about the Judicial Retention Campaign: "This is a Time for Heroes."

Check out this video of Brian Brown's inspiring speech to pro-marriage activists in Iowa recently:

Focus on the Family's Jim Daly on "The Professor Who Dared Rock the Boat"

Focus on the Family's Jim Daly:

Professor Regnerus wasn’t being attacked because his research lacked academic rigor – in fact, his peer-reviewed study was by far the largest, most statistically valid study on the topic to be done. He was being attacked because his scientific findings didn’t square with the liberal perspective. When it comes to this topic of homosexual parenting, numerous other studies have been published that utilized all kinds of sloppy techniques, all intended to generate a desired outcome – that children do just fine in homosexual households. None of the professors who have conducted those studies have been subjected to similar investigations, even though their bias is obvious and their work deeply flawed.

The indignity that befell Professor Regnerus notwithstanding, the findings of his study should embolden and hearten those who believe in the biblical definition of marriage.

Here’s why:

Reality is not going to contradict God’s law and humans have the best chance to flourish when they follow it.

Michelle Obama Enlists Aid of Gay Activists at HRC Event

Politico:

Michelle Obama pledged her husband's continued support of gay rights issues on Wednesday, as she addressed a major LGBT group.

"My husband has stood strong for the basic values of freedom, justice and equality that make this country great. And he always will," she told a Human Rights Campaign lunch here.

... She also made an appeal to activists in the crowd. "What I want to say here today is that we don’t have a single minute to waste. We really don’t. Time is of the essence. And we need you all to be fired up, but we need you to work like never before," she said. "I mean, truly work like never before. We need you out there every single day between now and November the 6th."

Video: Paul Ryan Says Mitt Romney "A Defender of Marriage, and an Example of It"

Not to be missed in all the quotes and highlights from the two political conventions is this one by Mitt Romney's VP Paul Ryan:

Of Mitt Romney he says: "Not only [is he] a defender of marriage, he offers an example of marriage at its best."

Washington’s Bishops: SSM Will Have "Chilling Effect" on Religious Freedom

Catholic Culture World News:

The bishops of the State of Washington have issued a statement urging Catholics to uphold the definition of marriage as the union of a man and a woman during the upcoming marriage referendum.

At the November referendum, the state’s voters will have the opportunity to ratify or reject a new state law allowing same-sex marriage.

“If the state successfully disconnects marriage from the potential inherent to sexual union between a man and woman, the civil meaning of marriage will be lost, and the institution that results will be a genderless contract without reference to children,” the bishops said. “The foundational nature of marriage for the good and the strength of human society will be harmed beyond repair. Faithful, monogamous marriages between one man and one woman will cease to be the legally-established social standard for uniting children with their parents, even though social science has established that children do best when raised in homes with married mothers and fathers.”

UK Government Lawyer to European High Court: Christians Should Leave Faith at Home or Resign

The UK Christian Institute:

Christians in Britain should leave their faith at home or accept that they might have to get another job, a Government lawyer has told the European Court of Human Rights.

The comment came as the Court heard the cases of four Christians, including that of registrar Lillian Ladele who was disciplined for her stance on civil partnerships. All four say the UK Government failed to protect their religious liberty.

Dinah Rose QC, representing Miss Ladele, told the Court that her client had been used as “an instrument” of social change by her former employer Islington Borough Council.

She warned the judges that the submission from the United Kingdom’s Government entails “permitting Islington to treat Miss Ladele as an instrument for the propagation of its public message.

“And we submit that to treat a person, an individual, as a means and not an aim in themselves, is fundamentally incompatible with individual human dignity and incompatible with convention rights.”

James Eadie QC, acting on behalf of the Government, argued that the rights of the four Christians were only protected in private, and that they could not “insist on being able to manifest their beliefs in any way they choose”.

He argued that a Christian “under difficulty” is not discriminated against if they have the choice of “resigning and moving to a different job”.