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YNN Video: Same-Sex Marriage Vote Could Hurt Senate Republicans

Your News Now adds to the outlets reporting the post-SSM woes of the four flip-flopping Republican senators in New York:

Their votes in favor of same-sex marriage garnered them praise and campaign cash from advocates. But two of the four Republican senators who broke ranks and voted for the law are now facing challenges from their right flank.

Assemblyman Steve McLaughlin, a Republican from the Capital Region, is gearing up to face Senator Roy McDonald. Senator Mark Grisanti, a Buffalo freshman, lost the coveted endorsement last week of the Erie County Conservative Party.

...McLaughlin, who said Wednesday in telephone interview that he was planning to make a decision on the race soon, is picking up support from the Saratoga County GOP establishment.

It's a potentially troubling development for Senate Republicans, who hold a narrow 32 to 29 majority. But lobbyists opposed to gay marriage said the opposition to the incumbents is more complicated than just their yes votes.

"Particular with Senator McDonald it's an issue of really a flip flop on tax increases, there's been some union issues there that Republican voters are concerned about. In Buffalo with Grisanti it's a question of integrity. People there are saying if you can't trust him on the vote for same-sex marriage, what can you trust him on," said Rev. Jason McGuire, from NYers For Constitutional Freedoms.

Maggie Gallagher on Maryland SSM: "Democrat Leaders Looking to Please Big Money Constituencies"

The Baltimore Sun interviewed NOM co-founder Maggie Gallagher briefly about same-sex marriage in Maryland:

Opponents nationally are also keeping an eye on Maryland. National Organization for Marriage founder Maggie Gallagher said the Old Line State is the one she's "least worried about." She said voters in Maryland will see the same-sex marriage bill as an example of "Democratic leaders looking to please one of their big-money constituencies."

And, she said, opponents have defeated same-sex marriage bills every time they've gone to referendum. "There is no big call for this among voters," she said.

Several powerful local opposition forces joined Wednesday to push the drive to gather the 56,000 signatures needed to put the Maryland same-sex marriage law on the ballot. The coalition includes the Maryland Marriage Alliance, which is a group of mostly African-American ministers, the Maryland Catholic Conference and MDPetitions.com, an organization headed by Del. Neil Parrott, a Western Maryland Republican.

Maryland's Board of Elections approved the groups' proposed petition form Wednesday, the first step before they can start collecting signatures.

McCoy, of the Maryland Marriage Alliance, said the organizers are focused and motivated. The groups will be training volunteers next week and will be in churches gathering signatures by next Sunday, McCoy said.

Gay rights advocates acknowledge that they haven't had success nationally at the ballot box...

Stop the Sneak Attack on Marriage in North Carolina!

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Dear Marriage Supporter,

I'll keep this short, but the need in North Carolina is urgent.

We've just learned that gay marriage supporters in North Carolina have been stockpiling mountains of cash.

It's looking almost certain that in the final days before the election, they will launch an all-out air war, blanketing North Carolina TV and radio with ads full of lies and misinformation about the Marriage Protection Amendment—using scare tactics to maximum effect before we have a chance to respond.

It's a bold strategy—but we can't let it succeed. And the only way we can fight back is if we have the resources to get our message out to voters. In a fair fight, the truth will prevail—but without the resources to mount an aggressive ad campaign of our own, it won't be a fair fight.

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If our opponents were to steal victory in North Carolina, it would be devastating for the cause of marriage nationwide—and they know it.

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AP on HRC's New President Chad Griffin

The Associated Press:

A political strategist from California who has played a leading role in trying to overturn the state's same-sex marriage ban was named Friday as the new president of the Human Rights Campaign, the nation's largest gay rights lobbying and education group.

The Washington-based campaign's directors voted to hire Chad Griffin, 38, to replace outgoing president Joe Solmonese, who announced last year that he would step down after seven socially transformative and sometimes internally stormy years at the organization's helm.

... With annual revenues of about $40 million and a staff of 150, the Human Rights Campaign is recognized in Washington as the nation's most influential gay rights group. President Barack Obama has twice spoken at its annual fundraising dinner, and the organization claims credit for a host of gay rights advances that have taken place under Obama's watch, from the passage of a law making violence against gays a federal hate crime to new rules guaranteeing same-sex partners hospital visitation rights.

But HRC also has been criticized within the gay rights movement for being too cautious and representing only the interests of financially well-off gays. Solmonese was heavily criticized in 2007, for example, when the group agreed to support a congressional bill that would have extended job and housing protections to gay men and lesbians but not transgender people.

Freedom to Marry Files for SSM Referendum in Ohio

With this move, perhaps gay marriage activists will finally drop their complaint that putting marriage to a vote of the people is wrong? This makes the second state they are doing so, after all (Maine was the first):

A proposed constitutional amendment to undo Ohio’s 2004 same-sex marriage ban will be submitted today to Attorney General Mike DeWine.

The Freedom to Marry Coalition expects to file more than 1,700 signatures of registered Ohio voters; 1,000 valid signatures are required in the first step of placing a constitutional issue before Ohio voters this fall or possibly next year.

The proposal would change the Ohio Constitution — amended in 2004 to block same-sex marriage — to say that the state and political jurisdictions define marriage as “a union of two consenting adults, regardless of gender.”

... Phil Burress, of the Cincinnati-based group Citizens for Community Values, said that if same-sex marriage supporters put the issue on the ballot this fall “they can kiss (President Barack) Obama goodbye.” Burress’ group was instrumental in passing the 2004 amendment defining marriage as between a man and woman, an issue credited by some with helping President George W. Bush to win a second term.

“I guess they’re feeling their oats because seven states have same-sex marriage,” Burress said. “ They’re going to have their hands full. We’re prepared to meet them on the field of battle.” -- The Columbus Dispatch

Tom Minnery: CO Civil Unions "Unnecessary and Risky"

In the Denver Post, Tom Minnery of Focus on the Family argues that civil unions are proving to be a slippery slope to redefining marriage:

... Proponents argue that civil unions are no threat to the state's constitutional amendment defining marriage. All one has to do is look to the west to see that's not the case. In 2010, a federal judge ruled that California's attempt to grant civil union-like benefits to same-sex couples created a "second-class citizenship" — and he ordered same-sex marriage as the way to fix the "problem" despite California's state marriage amendment which is virtually identical to Colorado's. That's the same "problem" civil unions would create in Colorado, taking the definition of marriage out of the hands of the people and inviting a federal court challenge like California's.

Every time a state has passed civil unions, demands to the legislature or the courts from gay activists to legalize same-sex marriage have followed — every time. To say civil unions are not about marriage is to disregard these facts.

Colorado voters already rejected a ballot referendum virtually identical to the civil union bill when they voted down Referendum I in 2006. Alongside Ref I on the ballot that year was Amendment 43, which defined marriage as one man and one woman. Voters said yes to marriage and no to domestic partnerships because it represented a counterfeit to marriage, just like the pending civil union bill.

National Organization for Marriage: Maryland Residents, Not O'Malley, Will Have Final Say on Marriage

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE: March 2, 2012

Contact: Anath Hartmann or Elizabeth Ray (703-683-5004)


"They will overturn this act."—Brian Brown, NOM president—

National Organization for Marriage

Washington, D.C. — The National Organization for Marriage today called Maryland's same-sex marriage legislation meaningless following Gov. Martin O'Malley's signature yesterday of a bill recognizing same-sex unions.

Maryland voters, not politicians, have the final say on marriage, NOM President Brian Brown said.

"The Maryland same-sex marriage legislation is a meaningless, symbolic act," Brown said. "The people of Maryland, not politicians, will have the final say on marriage. And they will overturn this act of the General Assembly."

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Video: Another Gay Person Against Gay Marriage (UK Edition)

Sky News' "most famous lesbian" Julie Bindel says fighting for same-sex marriage is a waste of time. She prefers the Ron Paul solution -- abolish marriage altogether.

Bindel says: "[Gay people gaining the ability to marry] is really, quite frankly, a waste of time and effort. [Some] will be surprised at me saying this but, I would like to abolish marriage for everyone and say that we should have the right to civil partnership should we so wish. And I'm also sick of the privileges that couples get and this hoo-hah around this union..."

Gay Marriage Advocate Jonathan Rauch Calls For End to Blacklisting Marriage Defenders

Jonathan Rauch in The Daily last month:

... In 2008, California’s voters approved Proposition 8, which rescinded court-ordered same-sex marriage. Some angry gay activists then boycotted or protested businesses that employed Prop 8 supporters, even if all the supporters did was donate $100.

We don’t know how many people actually lost jobs because of these heavy-handed tactics. Probably very few. But never mind; the stratagem became the story. “Prop 8 Foes Turn to ‘Blacklist’ Tactics,” shouted a USA Today headline. Justified or not, fear spread in conservative circles that getting on the wrong side of gay marriage could cost you your job. “People tell us that their livelihoods have been threatened solely because of their public advocacy opposing same-sex marriage,” said Maggie Gallagher, founder of the National Organization for Marriage.

“Fine,” say some gay rights activists. “If they’re going to be bigots, they should be afraid to speak out.” Wrong. What the gay-rights movement has always really stood for is a country where we can all express our identities and convictions without fear: a country without closets, gay or straight.

UPI: NOM to Fight Washington State Gay Marriage Bill

UPI:

A national group opposing same-sex marriage says it's gearing up to overturn a bill likely to pass in Washington state allowing gay marriage.

The National Organization for Marriage, an anti-gay marriage organization with one of the deepest pockets in the United States, said it's fully committed to getting on the ballot in November to repeal any legislation passed allowing same-sex marriage, The Seattle Times reported.

"We plan to submit a referendum on this to the secretary of state before the ink is dry on the governor's signature," said Chris Plante, regional coordinator for NOM. "We've got a major constituency; faith communities across the state will carry a heavy load on this. But they're not the only ones committed to retaining the current definition of marriage.

Find out more at Preserve Marriage Washington.

Consequences of a Vote, NOM Marriage News

NOM National Newsletter

NOM Marriage News

My Dear Friends,

Votes have consequences.

We just endorsed a Democrat for the New York state Senate, Chuck Swanick.

Here's what I said in our press release:

"In response to those who say that electing Mr. Swanick could cost Dean Skelos his majority in the Senate we say, 'we don't care,'" Brown said. "Mark Grisanti's political career will be ended over same-sex marriage, and he might take Dean Skelos with him. But that is Skelos' own doing for having allowed the same-sex marriage bill to come to a vote in the Senate. We are committed to electing a pro-marriage majority, not protecting Republicans like Mark Grisanti who betray our core values."

NOM said it intends to participate in legislative contests throughout the state as part of its $2 million commitment to make sure the voters of New York are able to vote to restore marriage in New York. In addition to Grisanti, the group plans to oppose Senators James Alesi, Roy McDonald, Stephen Saland and Shirley Huntley, and support those who voted against redefining marriage such as Ruben Diaz.

"We are on a crusade to reclaim the people's right to vote on marriage. We will work with legislators of any party, like Chuck Swanick and the courageous Democratic Senator Ruben Diaz, who will stand for the truth of marriage as the union of one man and one woman. We're committed to achieving a majority for marriage, not any particular partisan majority," Brown concluded.

Votes have consequences.

That's what Buffalo Senator Mark Grisanti is learning, as one of the four Buffalo Republicans whose flip to vote for gay marriage in New York is turning into a real flop with the voters.

The Erie County Conservative Party has announced he won't have the Conservative Party's backing in this election.

(Grisanti's electoral troubles aren't helped by press coverage of his involvement in the equivalent of a barroom fight in a local casino.)

Meanwhile, NY State Sen. Roy McDonald, another Republican who betrayed his promise to the people with his vote for gay marriage, was the next to take an embarrassing hit. His hometown Wilton GOP Committee endorsed his opponent, Assemblyman Steve McLaughlin, for the GOP nomination.

New York's Capitol Confidential headline sums it up: pro-marriage forces are "piling on" New York's flip-flopping senators.

PolitickerNY also noticed that NOM is helping out in the race to replace another flip-flopping (and otherwise disgraced) State Sen. Carl Kruger, in the special election for his Brooklyn seat.

Part of the amazing multi-racial, interfaith coalition for marriage swung into action, as major Orthodox Jewish rabbis came out hard against Lew Fidler, who supports gay marriage. We helped them get
their message out on marriage, as Politicker reports:

"We Need A Senator Who Supports Torah Values," the ad's headline reads, before going after the Democratic candidate. "Lew Fidler voted to support same-gender 'marriage,' a forbidden act under the Torah."

The ad's featured photo is the Republican candidate, attorney David Storobin, standing in between Majority Leader Dean Skelos and State Senator Marty Golden, surrounded by Rabbis. Below is a photo of Mr. Storobin with Rabbi Yisroel Belsky, who the New York Times once described as "prominent and influential." According to the ad, Rabbi Belsky says it is forbidden "to provide public recognition or any kind of assistance to Lew Fidler ... Rabbi Yisroel Belsky endorses David Storobin, who will support Torah Values."

New York was the springboard for a new nationwide push to impose gay marriage, against the will of the voters. We are fighting hard in Washington, Maryland, Maine, New Jersey—and more states will follow.

This is a two-step punch to try to knock marriage supporters out of the ring—fueled by Republican betrayals which are rewarded by pro-gay-marriage cash in the political arena.

But the people are fighting back with votes on marriage in Minnesota and North Carolina.

In Washington state the Family Policy Institute of Washington, led by Joseph Backholm, has filed a referendum to roll back gay marriage.

This week in Maryland the black churches fought back big time, with the Maryland Marriage Alliance filing a referendum to overturn Maryland's just-passed gay marriage law.

Maryland Marriage Alliance Press Conference

These black pastors are men of great courage and determination. They are fired up at this assault on Biblical values regarding marriage in the name of faux civil rights.

Even the Washington Post noticed the anomaly of these civil rights heroes being slandered as haters and bigots by white liberals:

All of a sudden, they are bigots and haters—they who stood tall against discrimination, who marched and sat in, who knew better than most the pain of being told they were less than others. They are black men, successful ministers, leaders of their community. But with Maryland poised to become the eighth state in the nation to legalize same-sex marriage, they hear people—politicians, activists, even members of their own congregations—telling them they are on the wrong side of history, and that's not where they usually live.

...Nathaniel Thomas spent decades as an administrator in Howard University's student affairs office, counseling young people not only about their course work but also about their personal quests for justice. He came to the ministry at the dawn of middle age, eager to help people, and especially fellow black men, discover in the word of God a path out of despair.

Over the past couple of years, as Thomas and dozens of other black clergymen in Prince George's County have stood on the front line of the campaign against same-sex marriage, he has come to see the revolution at hand—in his view, a rebellion against religion and tradition—as an assault on the sustainability of the black family.

Which is why Thomas and his friend Reynold Carr, director of the Prince George's Baptist Association, are gearing up for the next battle, a statewide ballot referendum in November to challenge the legalization of same-sex marriage, which the state House of Delegates approved last Friday.

...Thomas and the 77 other Baptist ministers in the association do not see same-sex marriage as a civil rights matter. Rather, they say, it is a question of Scripture, of whether a country based on Judeo-Christian principles will honor what's written in Romans or decide to make secular decisions about what's right. In Maryland, as in California and New York, opinion polls have shown that although a majority of white voters support recognition of same-sex marriage, a majority of blacks oppose it, often on religious grounds.

It takes real courage to stand up for Biblical values against the forces now geared to redefine our society. I am humbled at the honor of fighting shoulder to shoulder with giants such as these.

Meanwhile up north, we are helping out big-time with a push to take back territory in New Hampshire.

Here's how the Manchester Union Leader covered the story:

"I think the Legislature has a chance to right the tremendous wrong of forcing this thing through a few years ago," Brown said.

Asked what the $250,000 will be used for, Brown said: "We'll expose those candidates who decided to undermine marriage."

Plans include running independent TV ads as well as donating directly to legislators' campaigns this year.

"There are limits on what we can do with direct contributions, whereas with independent expenditures or issue ads, we can spend unlimited funds," Brown said.

In 2010, NOM spent more than $1 million, including running ads critical of Republican gubernatorial candidate Bill Binnie. NOM expects to spend about $15 million nationally this year, backed by donations from 60,000 supporters.

"We're a national group, but we've got thousands of supporters in New Hampshire, and we work hand in hand in New Hampshire," Brown said.

Then the New York Times reports on February 29 on pro-marriage chances: "A repeal bill appears to have a good chance of passing in the state House and Senate, which are both controlled by Republicans. The bigger question is whether they can muster enough votes to overcome a promised veto from Gov. John Lynch, a Democrat."

Wow.

With all eyes on the GOP nomination fight, I'm grateful to be able to remind you that Mitt Romney and Rick Santorum, the two top contenders for the GOP nomination, have both committed to being marriage champions by signing NOM's Marriage Pledge. (So has Newt Gingrich!)

National elections have consequences too. With Prop 8 and the Defense of Marriage Act headed to the Supreme Court, the stakes this November could not be higher.

President Obama sent his Health and Human Services secretary Kathleen Sebelius—fresh from her new campaign to force Christian schools, charities, hospitals and even Salvation Army soup kitchens to help fund abortion-inducing drugs—to oppose the marriage amendment in North Carolina. She said it was "hugely important" to defeat the marriage protection amendment in North Carolina—a sure sign that they are "hugely" worried they are going to lose.

Wow, is this tone-deaf on Obama's part! He sent to North Carolina a woman most known for imposing on the rights of people of faith, to headline the opposition to the marriage amendment.

When we warn that gay marriage will have consequences for religious liberty, Kathleeen Sebelius is more of a confirmation than a refutation of voters' concerns.

The campaign by Obama to redefine reality so he can impose his values on us all has just begun.

This is a fitting reminder to us all: Votes do have big consequences—for all our values.

I promise you: At NOM we won't back down from a fight, no matter how tough the going gets, or what hateful names they try to throw at us.

I know I'm standing up for millions of decent, loving, law-abiding Americans like you whose values are rooted in God's word and common sense.

At NOM we will fight for your values until we win.

NYTimes: Pro-Marriage Groups Taking Sen. McDonald Up On His "Take the Job and Shove It" Offer

John Eligon of the New York Times:

With a blunt one-liner — “They can take the job and shove it” — describing his disregard for the political consequences of his decision to support same-sex marriage last year, Senator Roy J. McDonald, a Republican from Saratoga, became a hero to gay rights groups.

But now, some of Mr. McDonald’s onetime supporters seem to be taking his punchy invitation to heart.

The Republican committee in Mr. McDonald’s hometown, Wilton, where he was town supervisor, this week shunned him by endorsing one of his potential opponents in his re-election campaign. Mr. McDonald has also been spurned by Republican committees in Malta and Halfmoon, though they have not endorsed an alternative candidate, The Troy Record reported.

Elaine Gerber, vice chairwoman of the Wilton Republican Committee, said Mr. McDonald’s words were a factor in her decision to vote against him. “If I said that to the person who hired me, I would be fired,” she said. “Obviously, he didn’t care if I fired him.”

Mr. McDonald is the second of the four Republican senators who supported same-sex marriage to face direct political trouble as all state lawmakers prepare to face voters this year.

Last week, Senator Mark J. Grisanti, a Buffalo Republican who also supported same-sex marriage, lost the support of the Erie County Conservative Party, which played a crucial role in his election to his first term two years ago. The state’s Conservative Party said it would oppose the re-election of the four senators, and the National Organization for Marriage pledged to try to defeat them.

AP: Maryland Board of Elections Approves Marriage Referendum Language

The Maryland Marriage Alliance is well on its way to being approved to gather signatures for a referendum to overturn the gay marriage bill Gov. O'Malley has promised to sign into law:

As Maryland Gov. Martin O’Malley prepares to sign legislation legalizing gay marriage, opponents of the bill have cleared one of the first hurdles to asking voters to overturn the law.

The State Board of Elections has approved the language opponents will use when collecting signatures to bring the law to referendum, Mary Cramer Wagner, director of the board’s Voter Registration Division, said Wednesday. The governor was expected to sign the bill into law the next day.

...Maryland Marriage Alliance, a group up of religious organizations and supported by the National Organization for Marriage, is expected to lead the signature-gathering effort. A website Parrott developed last year, mdpetitions.com, will be used to electronically disseminate petitions.

... [Derek] McCoy [director for the Marriage Alliance] said his group will count on religious leaders to encourage their congregations to support the referendum effort, adding that they will likely be asking church goers to sign the measure at services as early as early as Sunday.

“You don’t get to the right to choose marriage and what it means for everybody and that’s really where we are,” McCoy said. -- The Associated Press

Maryland's Doug Mainwaring: Not All Gay Men Support Gay Marriage

A gay man writes in the Potomac Tea Party Report on "The Myth of the Same Sex Marriage Mandate":

The issue of same sex marriage has been hijacked by politicians and ideologues in the interest of pursuing broader political gain.

Sadly, at the same time it also has been turned into a faux-civil rights issue, diminishing the meaning of the centuries-long struggle by Blacks for equality. If this truly were a matter of civil rights, President Obama would have unhesitatingly championed same sex marriage throughout his presidency, knowing that he is on the side of right. In the President’s own words his views on gay marriage are “evolving.” Why? Because his support is the product of complicated political calculations, not a heartfelt sense of justice.

The same holds true for Maryland’s Governor O’Malley. Until a few months ago, Governor Martin O’Malley was content to stay in the background on same sex marriage, clearly revealing that he does not view this as a legitimate civil rights issue. If he did, he would have been out in front of this on both a state and a national level long ago. His current vocal support is nothing more than treading safely in New York Governor Andrew Cuomo’s larger footsteps, all in the name of political opportunism.

Judging by current statistics, a mandate to institute same sex marriage doesn’t exist — even among gays and lesbians. Not supposition, empirical fact.

PayPal Billionaire Peter Thiel Secretly Funding Ron Paul's Attack Ads

The San Francisco Chronicle:

Who is this mystery man who has donated $2.6 million to Endorse Liberty, the pro-Paul super PAC that has produced several viral videos and sponsored sharp attack ads against Santorum, Gingrich and Texas Gov. Rick Perry?

Thiel, 44, is a low-profile libertarian with a background as quirky as the candidate he supports.

Born in Germany, he's a self-made billionaire who became a chess master as a child, majored in philosophy at Stanford University, and founded the conservative-libertarian Stanford Review to "present alternate views" on a campus he felt was dominated by liberals.

... But the Bay Area billionaire is not just a free-enterprise fan. He's also a proud gay Christian who has supported a wide range of causes including gay rights, freedom of the press, antiaging research and artificial intelligence.