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"Free to be quirky Mormons, or whatever religion we choose"

A Utah Mormon native writes about the freedom to be religious, quirks and all:

Religious freedom was the topic of a recent address by University of Utah President Michael Young, who said that Mormons in particular ought to be “among the most passionate civil libertarians in the world, to preserve our religious freedoms.” Young, a descendant of Utah colonizer Brigham Young, detailed what he sees as attacks on religious freedoms and called for individual LDS Church members to pay attention. “Often,” he noted, “it’s zoning boards or city councils that make decisions that impinge on religious liberties.”

And what would Utah Mormons do without our religious freedom? Who can imagine life without the freedom to avoid coffee and tea, while swigging down sodas and energy drinks?  Utah Mormons are free to worry about anybody who is over 22 and not married, free to decorate empty gallon paint buckets for our home décor, and free to wear ugh-lee floral print dresses. What would Utah Mormons do with our Sabbath Day, if we weren’t working so hard with church callings, meetings, meetings, and more meetings, followed by big Sunday dinners? Utah Mormons are free to corner the market on ice cream, dehydrated food storage items, Jell-O molds, and glue guns — and we actually have classes on making “scriptures” out of Hershey’s chocolate bars. We are free to say, “Let me know if there’s anything I can do,” and then do nothing. We have the freedom to select names for our children from the Bible dictionary and to make Easter bunnies from two spools of pink ribbon and a little white felt.  And we’re free to be genuinely nice people in spite of all of our quirks.

Free also to stand for marriage, we might add.

Judge Walker Flouts US Supreme Court Edict - NOM Marriage News 4/14/2011

Dear Marriage Supporter,

Judge Vaughn Walker is in the news again, and it's not a pretty sight for those who care about the rule of law and judicial process.

First, Judge Walker gives an interview in which he acknowledges he's been in a ten-year partnership with a man. No less a legal scholar than John Eastman, former dean of Chapman University School of Law, argues that this heretofore undisclosed relationship should have grave consequences for Walker's ruling overturning Prop 8.

Eastman

Eastman writes: “Walker's admission requires that his decision in the case be vacated. He is either a direct beneficiary of his ruling in the case, or a person with a close-enough personal interest in the case that his impartiality might reasonably have been questioned if the required disclosures had been made.”

Here's a question no one has publicly asked yet: Is Judge Walker married to his partner under California law? Are they in a domestic partnership? Judge Walker has never directly answered this question—and California permits “confidential marriage licenses” so the public would not necessarily have any way to know.

Judge Walker has never even disclosed the name of his partner, or the nature of this partnership, so the litigants in this case still do not know if there are spousal or quasi-spousal potential conflicts of interest either.

Judge Walker does not appear to be a judge with a finely-tuned sense of what judicial ethics require.

The even bigger news story (which has been largely ignored by the mainstream press, natch) is contained in the motion filed by Cooper and Kirk, on behalf of Protect Marriage, which asks the court to order Judge Walker to turn over all copies of the videotapes he made at the trial.

Judge Walker's not-so-blind version of justice

You may recall Judge Walker's unseemly zest during the trial to violate all procedural rules in order to televise the trial, over the objections of the Prop 8 supporters—who demonstrated that televising would have a negative impact on expert witnesses who feared harassment as a result.

The Supreme Court had to slap Walker down in a stinging direct order (PDF) to stop trying to televise the trial.

But Judge Walker decided to continue videotaping the trial anyway, allegedly only for his own personal use.

In fact, he directly promised Prop 8 supporters, who objected and asked him to stop the cameras after the Supreme Court order, that the videotapes would not be used for any purpose other than helping him write his opinion.

Not everybody believed him at the time.

I've heard that at least one witness backed out of testifying when he heard the news that the judge intended to keep on videotaping. “I've been around the block a few times,” this witness said. “I know if there's a videotape, it's likely to get out.”

But who would have expected that Judge Walker himself, just days before he stepped down from the bench, would brazenly violate his own promise—upon which the litigants relied both in testifying and in declining to pursue further legal action—by showing the videotapes during a speech he made, which he knew was being videotaped by C-SPAN?

Note that Judge Walker didn't show, say, the plaintiffs testifying, who wanted to be televised. He singled out an expert witness for Prop 8—one of the very class of people who had expressed concerns about harassment—and broadcast him in an unflattering moment on live, national television.

As I said in a NOM press release, “What more evidence do we need that Vaughn Walker is a rogue judge with little regard for ordinary judicial process and fair play?”

You can read the whole story in the motion up on the NOM blog.

But, for my money, here's the money quote from the able litigator Charles Cooper's motion:

“. . . .[T]he Supreme Court had just stayed his broadcast order, then-Chief Judge Walker insisted on recording the trial proceedings anyway. In doing so over Proponents' objection, Chief Judge Walker assured Proponents on the record that the recording was 'not going to be for purposes of public broadcasting or televising,' but rather 'simply for use in chambers.' In reliance on Chief Judge Walker's assurances, Proponents took no further action to prevent him from recording the trial proceedings. One of Proponents' witnesses also relied on those assurances, and now the recording of a portion of his testimony has been shown by Judge Walker to a large public audience and, in turn, has been disseminated nationally by C-SPAN.”

What kind of judge would break court rules, defy a direct Supreme Court order, and break a direct promise made to litigants in court?

One who clearly does not care much about the ordinary rules of fair play.

We now know for sure what kind of judge and man Vaughn Walker is.

Cuccinelli

Some breaking good news! Ken Cuccinelli, Virginia's attorney general, has just ruled that the proposed “mandatory gay adoption” regulations are illegal.

Do you ever wonder whether elections have consequences?

I first ran into Ken Cuccinelli when he was in a tight race for his state senator's seat in Virginia. They told me he was one of our future stars, and so NOM's PAC gave some money to his race in the crucial last week. He won that race by just 92 votes.

Now he's attorney general of Virginia—a very powerful position when it comes to protecting the rights of people, and of THE people.

Ex-governor Tim Kaine (unwilling to propose these regs while he was governor) left a little time bomb for the incoming administration: He proposed in his last month in office some new regulations which would shut down religious adoption agencies if they do not do same-sex couple adoptions, or even just prefer married couples in ANY way.

Kaine even got his outgoing attorney general to approve these regulations.

They tried to sneak a fast one by the people of Virginia—and today it's clear they lost.

According to the Washington Post, “Cuccinelli's office said in a memo dated Tuesday that the proposal to be considered by the State Board of Social Services as early as next week 'does not comport with applicable state law and public policy.'

“'Therefore the State Board lacks the authority to adopt this proposed language,' wrote Allen Wilson, senior assistant attorney general.”

Thanks to each of you who responded to our urgent call to comment on these mean-spirited regulations which would have mandated that every adoption and foster care agency give children to gay couples, regardless of their religious and moral views, as a condition of being licensed by the state of Virginia.

Both Gov. Bob McDonnell and Attorney General Ken Cuccinelli deserve our thanks for standing up to the press and the bureaucrats in defense of common sense, the rule of law, and religious liberty.

We have tough battles still ahead in New York and Rhode Island—more on that next week.

Meanwhile a lot of you have been asking me about Louis Marinelli. There are some potential litigation issues, so we won't be saying much as we sort those legal issues out.

But here are the basic facts. Louis was not a major NOM strategist. He was not in charge of our summer bus tour. He was never an employee of NOM. He's a young man who, on his own, built a Facebook page with almost 300,000 supporters, called Protect Marriage, One Man, One Woman. He wanted to use that page to help NOM's work. He volunteered to help drive the bus for the NOM bus tour. We eventually paid him as a part-time contractor to help with internet outreach. Last Friday, he abruptly announced he was now pro-gay-marriage and shut down the Facebook page.

I said on our blog that we wish him well, and personally I do!

Meanwhile can you do me a favor? We have a new Facebook page up. Can you go there and “like” it?

Please Like our new Facebook page and please share it with your friends!

Thanks! And pass along a request to your Facebook friends, too!

God bless you, and thank you for your courage and your decency.

I'm grateful for your support!

Semper fi,

Brian brown

Brian S. Brown
President
National Organization for Marriage

PS: In the fight for marriage, every bit of help counts. NOM serves to amplify your voice so you can be heard in the corridors of power, and in order to do that, we need your help. Whether you can give $15 or $150, or a monthly donation of just $10, know that every dollar makes a difference in getting your voice heard.

In Focus: Religious clubs face discrimination, even on public campuses

Deseret News in Utah reports:

In the spring of 2004, Dina Haddad went to an administrator at Hastings, a law school in San Francisco, to get approval for a new campus club. Haddad was the vice president of the Hastings chapter of the Christian Legal Society — a national group of Christian lawyers, judges and law students that professed to "proclaim, love and serve Jesus Christ through the study and practice of law." Haddad wanted CLS to get recognized by Hastings as an official student organization. But when she met with the school's director of student services she was handed a copy of the university's nondiscrimination policy. The message was clear: Christian groups like CLS weren't welcome on campus.

That simple encounter was the beginning of a classic case of conflict between a university's nondiscrimination policies and a student religious group's freedom to define itself.

Six years later, on June 28, 2010, the Supreme Court of the United States decided the case of Christian Legal Society v. Martinez. The ruling gave public universities an almost bulletproof way to apply nondiscrimination policies that could force religious student groups on campus to admit not only gay students, but atheists and other people who have different religious views. But adopting the same policy as Hastings and enforcing it may have the effect of marginalizing some groups such as evangelicals and Orthodox Jewish congregations.

Supreme Court Justice Samuel Alito, in his dissent, called the majority decision of the court "a serious setback for freedom of expression in this country."

RI Bishop Tobin says Church open to reciprocal benefits, but opposes redefining marriage

GoLocalProv believes it has discovered a new strain of Catholic teaching. Sigh. Not all rights and benefits are marital benefits, and Catholic Church leaders have always been willing to find ways to provide some practical benefits that do not compromise marriage or moral teachings on sex. Reciprocal beneficiaries was pioneered, with the consent of the Catholic church there, in Hawaii. It's not news, but it is true:

In an exclusive interview, Roman Catholic Bishop Thomas Tobin said the Church is not opposed to granting some benefits and rights to gay couples—as long as the term marriage is not used.

His statement—which was couched in caveats—nonetheless indicates a flexibility in the Church’s position that has previously been overlooked in the polarizing debate over gay marriage in Rhode Island.

“The legislation we would support is what is often called ‘reciprocal benefits,’” Tobin told GoLocalProv. “It does not use marriage as a reference point. It would grant some legal benefits [and] some legal rights to two people who have some kind of established relationship without any particular reference to marriage. So it could be someone and their grandfather. Could be two cousins. Could be two elderly sisters.”

Such a bill was filed in the House in early March. The bill, sponsored by Rep Peter Petrarca, D- Lincoln, would grant about half a dozen rights and benefits to any two unmarried people, regardless of sexual orientation. If passed, it would allow one partner to make medical decisions for another, have a say over the burial and disposition of their remains, and the right to inherit property if the other partner dies.

Tobin declined to elaborate on exactly which legal benefits and rights he thought unmarried couples should have—saying that’s a question for legal experts. “People deserve human rights whether or not they’re gay,” Tobin said. “Now the reciprocal benefits [bill] recognizes some rights and some privileges irrespective of their orientation and that’s the key I think.”

Tobin said he would not go as far as supporting civil unions, saying the church is as steadfastly opposed to civil unions as it is to gay marriage.

Breaking News: Virginia AG Cuccinelli Advises Proposed Adoption Regs Illegal

From the Washington Post:

Attorney General Ken Cuccinelli II has advised a state board that it cannot impose new regulations that some argue would for the first time allow gay couples to adopt children in Virginia.

Cuccinelli’s office said in a memo dated Tuesday that the proposal to be considered by the State Board of Social Services as early as next week “does not comport with applicable state law and public policy.”

“Therefore the State Board lacks the authority to adopt this proposed language,’’ wrote Allen Wilson, senior assistant attorney general.

... “It was a correct decision in my judgment,’’ [Del. Robert G. Marshall] said. “The General Assembly has not made sexual orientation a protected class. This will be welcome news to a lot of faith- based adoption agencies.”

Twin Lessons: Have More Kids. Pay Less Attention to Them.

Bryan Caplan is a Professor of Economics at George Mason University, the author of “Selfish Reasons to Have More Kids: Why Being a Great Parent Is Less Work and More Fun Than You Think” and a father of twins. He writes in the Wall Street Journal:

But twin research has another far more amazing lesson: With a few exceptions, the effect of parenting on adult outcomes ranges from small to zero.Parents change kids in many ways; the catch is that the changes fade out as kids grow up.  By adulthood, identical twins aren’t slightly more similar than fraternal twins; they’re much more similar.  And when identical twins are raised apart, they’re often just as similar as they are when they’re raised together.

... The obvious lesson to draw is that parents should lighten up.  I call it “Serenity Parenting”: Parents need the serenity to accept the things they cannot change, the courage to change the things they can, and (thank you twin research) the wisdom to know the difference.

... Yet eventually I noticed that twin research had another, far less obvious lesson for parents: Have more kids. When you ask high-effort parents if they want another child, the thought often frightens them. They’re already tired and stressed from the kids they’ve got; how could they endure the sacrifices required to raise one more? I reversed this argument. Others’ belief in the power of nurture made them reluctant to have more kids.  My disbelief in the power of nurture, by the same logic, made me eager to have more kids.

Parents who don’t take twin research seriously are “overcharging” themselves for every child—not financially, but emotionally. The blatant lesson of twin research is to stop overcharging yourself. Its subtle lesson is to rethink the number of children you want to have.

Ed Whelan on Vaughn Walker’s Continuing Defiance on Prop 8 Trial Recordings

Ed Whelan is the President of the Ethics and Public Policy Center. He writes in NRO's Bench Memos:

One of the clear early signs of former district judge Vaughn Walker’s determined malfeasance in the anti-Prop 8 case was his resort to procedural shenanigans and outright illegality in furtherance of his fervent desire to broadcast the trial, in utter disregard of (if not affirmatively welcoming) the harassment and abuse that pro-Prop 8 witnesses would reasonably anticipate. Walker’s escapade was blocked by an extraordinary (and fully warranted) stay order by the Supreme Court in an opinion that was plainly a stinging rebuke of Walker’s lack of impartiality:

The District Court attempted to change its rules at the eleventh hour to treat this case differently than other trials in the district. Not only did it ignore the federal statute that establishes the procedures by which its rules may be amended, its express purpose was to broadcast a high-profile trial that would include witness testimony about a contentious issue. If courts are to require that others follow regular procedures, courts must do so as well.

Walker ended up recording the trial proceedings but, assuring Prop 8 proponents that he was doing so only for his own use in deciding the case, he ordered the video recording of the trial to be placed under seal.

But, believe it or not, Walker himself recently publicly displayed and broadcast a portion of the video recording—containing cross-examination of one of proponents’ witnesses—notwithstanding that he thereby violated his own order and his court’s local rules, contravened the policies of the Judicial Conference of the United States and of the Ninth Circuit, and thumbed his nose at the Supreme Court.

Related: NOM Responds to News Judge Walker Violated Judicial Rules, Released Video in Defiance of Supreme Court

Urgent Marriage Alert: NY to Vote on Same-Sex Marriage Bill

The New York State Legislature is expected to vote on a same–sex marriage bill soon. Please take action today urging your Senator and Assemblyman to stand for marriage.

Urge Your Senator & Assemblyman to Support Marriage Today!

Today the legislature begins a 2–week vacation, returning to Albany on May 2nd. Reports out of Albany are indicating that the legislature will vote on same–sex marriage shortly after they return.

That gives us two weeks to contact legislators in defense of marriage! Please join us today by sending an email to your state senator and assemblyman.

Two years ago, your phone calls and emails helped block same–sex marriage in New York, as even the New York Times acknowledged that key legislators voting against the same–sex marriage bill did so because of “overwhelming opposition to same–sex marriage among their constituents.” The same thing happened in New Jersey, and earlier this year, in Maryland and Rhode Island.

The message is clear. When the people stand up, same–sex marriage advocates have to back down. Despite carefully crafted PR campaigns, gay marriage advocates simply cannot muster the votes when legislators start hearing from their constituents.

We can do it again, but only if you do two things today:

  1. Click here to send an email to your state senator and assemblyman today. Or click here to look up their phone number. Never underestimate the power of your phone calls or emails, especially over these next two weeks while they are at home in their districts.
  2. Forward this message to at least 5 friends today. Or share this email via Facebook and Twitter. We need thousands of New Yorkers contacting their legislators over these next two weeks. Please help get the word out!

Together we can send a powerful message to our elected officials. Please join us today!

NOM Responds to News Judge Walker Violated Judicial Rules, Released Video in Defiance of Supreme Court

“What more evidence do we need that Judge Walker is a rogue judge with little regard for ordinary judicial process and fair play?" - Brian Brown, President

(WASHINGTON, D.C.) – Prop 8 proponents today filed a motion in response to Judge Vaughn Walker’s illegal decision to release part of the videotapes of expert witnesses’ testimony in the Prop 8 trial. In response, Brian Brown, President of the National Organization for Marriage (NOM), released the following statement:

“By releasing the videotape on the eve of leaving the judicial bench, Judge Walker violated a judicial ethic, a clear promise he made to the witnesses, and defied the Supreme Court itself. What more evidence do we need that we have on our hands a rogue judge with little regard for ordinary judicial process and fair play?” said Brian Brown, NOM’s President.

“Allegations of prejudice and the appearance of bias on the part of Judge Walker are becoming increasingly hard to ignore, given this reckless disregard of normal judicial rules of behavior,” added Brown.

Key excerpts from the Motion:

On February 18, 2011, Judge Walker delivered a speech at the University of Arizona in which he played a portion of the video recording of the cross- examination of one of Proponents’ expert witnesses in the trial of this case. The speech was video taped by C-SPAN, and it was subsequently broadcast on C- SPAN several times beginning on March 22 ... The speech is available for viewing on C-SPAN’s website.

By publicly displaying the video recording of a portion of the trial testimony, Judge Walker (1) violated his own order placing the video recording of the trial under seal; (2) ignored the clear terms of the district court’s Local Rule 77-1-3, which prohibits the broadcast or other transmission of trial proceedings beyond “the confines of the courthouse”; (3) contravened the longstanding policies of the Judicial Conference of the United States and the Judicial Council of this Court prohibiting public broadcast of trial proceedings; and (4) defied the United States Supreme Court’s prior decision in this case ruling that an earlier attempt by then- Chief Judge Walker to publicly broadcast the trial proceedings “complied neither with existing rules or policies nor the required procedures for amending them.”

The Motion can be read in its entirety here.

Prop 8 Supporters Go After Judge Walker's Ilegal Release of Videotape

Supporters of Proposition 8 in California have filed a motion in response to Judge Walker's decision to show video recordings of the Prop 8 trial testimony which since have become public and widely disseminated.

UPDATE: "NOM RESPONDS TO NEWS JUDGE VAUGHN WALKER BLATANTLY VIOLATED JUDICIAL RULES, RELEASED VIDEO IN DEFIANCE OF U.S. SUPREME COURT"

A key excerpt from the Motion:

On February 18, 2011, Judge Walker delivered a speech at the University of Arizona in which he played a portion of the video recording of the cross- examination of one of Proponents’ expert witnesses in the trial of this case. The speech was video taped by C-SPAN, and it was subsequently broadcast on C- SPAN several times beginning on March 22...

By publicly displaying the video recording of a portion of the trial testimony, Judge Walker (1) violated his own order placing the video recording of the trial under seal; (2) ignored the clear terms of the district court’s Local Rule 77-3, which prohibits the broadcast or other transmission of trial proceedings beyond “the confines of the courthouse”; (3) contravened the longstanding policies of the Judicial Conference of the United States and the Judicial Council of this Court prohibiting public broadcast of trial proceedings; and (4) defied the United States Supreme Court’s prior decision in this case ruling that an earlier attempt by then- Chief Judge Walker to publicly broadcast the trial proceedings “complied neither with existing rules or policies nor the required procedures for amending them.”

Here is is the complete text:

Motion to Order Return of Video Recording

Chuck Colson and Timothy George on Catholics and Evangelicals Working Together for Religious Liberty

Chuck Colson and Timothy George - two primary figures, along with NOM Founding Chairman Dr. Robert George - behind the Manhattan Declaration (which now has almost half a million signatures) write about the "improbably alliance" between Catholics, Evangelicals and other people of faith regarding issues of religious liberty:

The most recent meeting of Evangelicals and Catholics Together (ECT) witnessed not just another theological discussion, but the birth of an alliance that only two decades ago would have seemed improbable. Here were Catholic and evangelical theologians seeking common ground on religious liberty, an issue that has caused frequent strife between the two groups.

Now, we are standing together to defend the religious liberty of all believers, which is under assault around the world and in the U.S. Consider the Proposition 8 case, the proposed ban on gay marriage in California. In striking down the referendum, U.S. District Judge Vaughn Walker wrote that Christian beliefs "harm gays and lesbians." Just months later, tech trendsetter Apple picked up the same refrain in removing a Manhattan Declaration app from its iTunes store.

If Christian teaching is degraded in this way, either in the courts or in corporate culture, Christians, as well as Muslims and Jews with similar views on this subject, could soon be charged with "hate speech" for simply stating what their religious traditions have held for millennia. (Christianity Today)

RI Minority Leader Lays Down Gauntlet to Speaker Fox: Let the House Vote!

Speaker Gordon Fox, who promised to hustle a gay marriage bill through the House in February, is now dragging his heels and not permitting the House to vote on the bill.

RI House Minority Leader Robert Watson, who opposes gay marriage, in a dramatic exchange yesterday, called Fox out on this point, arguing that the House should vote and then get on with the budget.

Why would Fox hold up the bill?  Only one reason: he doesn't have the votes.

"I will agree to vote that bill out of committee as an ex-officio member," Watson shouted as his microphone was cut off at Fox's request. "Once and for all, Mr. Speaker, we should get our focus on the budget."

... After the session ended, Watson approached Fox, who looked at him and asked, "What was that?" before exiting the chamber.

Rep. Arthur Handy, who introduced this year's gay marriage proposal, was standing nearby and remarked to Fox: "You know, he has a point."

Video: Child Psychiatrist Tells CA Senate Committee How LGBT Courses Harm Kids

Dr. Miriam Grossman is a board certified child, adolescent, and adult psychiatrist. She lectures internationally and has first-hand experience working with children with SSA and transgender feelings.

Recently she testified to the California Senate Judiciary Committee on SB48, which would introduce LGBT issues into schools beginning in kindergarten:

The Senate Committee ignored her advice and passed the bill. It will next be debated by the full CA Senate.

Who's your daddy? It's complicated, says U. of Michigan study

Diane Swanbrow writes for the University of Michigan:

The first national study of the prevalence of multiple partner fertility shows that 28 percent of all U.S. women with two or more children have children by more than one man.

... having children by different fathers was more common among minority women, with 59 percent of African American mothers, 35 percent of Hispanic mothers and 22 percent of white mothers with two or more children reporting multiple partner fertility. Women who were not living with a man when they gave birth and those with low income and less education were also more likely to have children by different men.

... "Raising children who have different fathers is a major factor in the intergenerational transmission of disadvantage," Dorius said. "Juggling all the different needs and demands of fathers in at least two households, four or more pairs of grandparents, and two or more children creates a huge set of chronic stressors that families have to deal with for decades." (Spero News)

Rich Lowry on the social threat of a stratified marriage culture

Rich Lowry writes at NRO on America's deepening (and troubling) class divide when it comes to marriage and other societal indicators:

Murray identifies what he calls the “founding virtues,” such as marriage, industriousness, and religiosity, which have always been considered the social basis of self-government. He looks at whites aged 30–49 and divides them into the top 20 percent socio-economically and the bottom 30 percent. The top tier is basically the upper middle class, the bottom the working class. He finds two worlds, increasingly separate and unequal.

... In 1960, everyone was married — 88 percent of the upper middle class and 83 percent of the working class. In 2010, 83 percent of the upper middle class is married and only 48 percent of the working class. This gap “amounts to a revolution in the separation of classes.” In 1960, births to single mothers in the working class were just 6 percent; now they are close to 50 percent.

These trends mean, just as it is suffering economically, the working class is getting cut off from the richest sources of social capital: marriage, two-parent families, and church-going.