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CitizenLink: Why Judge Walker Should Have Stepped Down

U.S. District Chief Judge James Ware, who replaced Judge Vaughn Walker (after he ruled against Prop 8), said at today's hearing that he would issue a judgement within 24 hours.

Catherine Snow explains the case for Judge Walker's obligation to recuse:

Media Matters and liberal and gay activists mistakenly claim that ProtectMarriage.com wants [Judge Vaughn] Walker’s ruling to be vacated merely because he identified himself as gay. Ed Whelan, president of the Ethics and Public Policy Center — and perhaps the Prop 8 trial’s keenest outside observer — points out that their distractions and distortions cloud the acute nature of Walker’s lapse in ethics — that he chose to rule on his personal rights. “It’s bad enough that so many of Walker’s defenders don’t confront the actual argument made by Prop 8 proponents. It’s even worse that they resort to invective as a substitute for their lack of argument,” Whelan opined.

“For example, Adam Serwer calls the motion to vacate ‘slimy’ and falsely claims that it rests ‘on the flimsy assumption that gays and lesbians are different from heterosexuals in a manner that justifies denying them their fundamental rights.’ (He also has no support for his claim that the motion is ‘built on an unstated. but core conservative view of the courts — that judicial ‘impartiality’ is best defined as viewing the law through the cultural prism of a heterosexual, conservative white Christian judge.’ But why bother to argue when simply alleging is so much easier?)”

In short, had Walker recused himself — or ruled in favor of Prop 8 — he would have destroyed his prospect of being in a same-sex marriage, if he so desired.

Even legal ethicist Jack Marshall, who supports same-sex marriage, reluctantly admitted: “Astraightforward application of the judicial ethics rules compels the conclusion that Walker should have recused himself from taking part in the [Perry v. Schwarzenegger] case” (emphasis added).

 

URGENT ACTION NEEDED: NY Same-Sex Marriage Vote in Next 6 Days!

6 days left to save marriage in New York! Please contact everyone you know who lives in New York and urge them to contact their state senator today.

6 Days Left to Save Marriage in New York

The New York legislative session comes to an end on June 20th, and a vote on the same-sex marriage bill is expected to come sometime next week.  New York is a pivotal state – and the outcome here will have a significant impact on the future of marriage throughout the nation.

The latest vote counts show that gay marriage activists are still 6 votes short of the 32 votes needed for passage, with 7 senators still undecided.  

But the fight is far from over!

Governor Cuomo continues meeting one-on-one with swing votes in the Senate. Mayor Bloomberg promises money for gay marriage supporters. But ultimately senators must listen to the voices of their constituents.

The Human Rights Campaign is calling on activists all across the country to help bring increased pressure to bear on not only the 7 undecided senators, but also trying to flip one or two senators already on record as opposing same-sex marriage. Just yesterday, HRC President Joe Solmonese told his activists "We're closer than ever to victory."

Maybe he's bluffing, but the reality is that New York senators must continue to hear from thousands of their constituents opposed to same-sex marriage over the next six days. If we let up now, victory could easily slip away.

Please – take action right now.

If you live in New York, you must contact your state senator right away – 
even if you've already contacted them before. Click here to send your message right now.

And for those who live outside New York, please forward this email to anyone you know who lives or works in New York. In just a few seconds, you can help reach out to new marriage supporters throughout New York.  

Victory is on the horizon. By June 20th, we may see another tremendous victory for marriage. Join us today!

AP on Anti-Religious Bullying by Some Gay Marriage Activists

In an article on the increasing intolerance of some gay marriage activists, Associated Press reporter David Crary quotes our co-founder Dr. Robert George:

"Democratic politics is a messy business and sometimes it's a contact sport," said George, a co-founder of the National Organization for Marriage, which campaigns against same-sex marriage. He suggested that those who hold cultural power — in academia, the media and elsewhere — are inevitably going to try to impose their viewpoints.

"The power to intimidate people, to make them fear they'll be called a bigot or denied opportunities for jobs, only works if people allow themselves to be bullied," George said. "Conservatives who make themselves out to be victims run the risk of playing into the hands of their opponents, suggesting that their opponents' cultural power is so vast that there's no way it can be resisted."

Scott Yenor on the Nature and Purpose of Marriage

Political theorist Scott Yenor, writing in the Public Discourse, takes a long-view look at marriage, and examines how various political and philosophical trends have had an effect on it:

Family decline appears to be inevitable when viewed with a long perspective. The family has been progressively differentiated from institutions that now accomplish what was formerly within the provenance of the family. The city's gods, and eventually the Church, replaced ancestral gods. The marketplace, and eventually the modern economy, replaced the family as the unit of economic production. The city replaced primitive patriarchy. Slowly, and more controversially, the state has come to fulfill increasing portions of the family's educational mission. Even the family's "provision of social services" has come, more and more, to be a state concern.

This "loss of functions" is a rational application of the division of labor, as functions extraneous to family life devolve in the presence of institutions better suited to accomplish these goals. As the family loses more and more functions, its purposes become thinner but, it is hoped, truer to the reality of what a family is.

This stripping of functions is also, however, cause for serious worry, for the functions of the family can almost always be exported to other institutions or arrangements or the need for them can seem to disappear from human life altogether. We must know what constitutes the family's end or purpose lest we face the ultimate in family decline.

Shadowy Donor Offers Troubled Equality Maryland $500,000 to Be Taken Over

We think it's ironic that the New York Daily News just claimed NOM was a "shadowy group" when this story reveals how little transparency there is even between pro-SSM groups:

Equality Maryland’s board of directors turned down an offer by an anonymous donor to give the financially struggling group $500,000 in exchange for the board giving up its voting privilege and becoming an advisory body, with a new board to be selected by the donor.

Darrell Carrington, an Equality Maryland board member who knows the identity of the donor and acted as the donor’s representative, said he resigned from the board on Monday following the board’s decision to turn down the offer.

He said he recused himself from voting on the offer, among other things, because the donor wanted him to be part of a new board selected by the donor to help save the organization, which faces the prospect of having to lay off all of but one of its employees by July 1. -- The Washington Blade

Equality Maryland, of course, has been on the ropes ever since losing their bid to redefine marriage in Maryland earlier this year.

NY Daily News Says NOM's "Shadowy" Profile Looms Large in NY!

This New York Daily News story is so over the top, it's funny:

"A shadowy group run by religious fundamentalists is bankrolling a pitched crusade against same-sex marriage in New York.

Secretive and flush with cash, the National Organization for Marriage is igniting a culture war as it battles Gov. Cuomo and Mayor Bloomberg in their campaign to legalize gay wedlock."

It goes on from there, feel free to read and enjoy.

The author does get one thing basically right: NOM's support and supporters continue to grow stronger and stronger!

Maggie Gallagher on Americans' Declining Urge to Marry

Sarah Hamaker of the Christian Post asks NOM Chairman Maggie Gallagher to comment on recent U.S. census numbers showing that fewer people are getting married:

Maggie Gallagher, chairman of the National Organization for Marriage based in Washington, D.C., says there are a few more reasons for the decrease. “Divorce rates are high, unmarried childbearing rates are going through the roof, and people are having fewer children overall than they did in the fifties and sixties. … Overall we’ve become a less child-centered and family focused culture. We’ve separated sex, love, marriage and children to an extraordinary degree.”

... Gallagher comments, “Sex, babies and marriage are not just intensely personal matters – they are civilizational ones, too.” When you add children to the mix, the stakes are even higher.
“Children are our future,” says Gallagher. “When a civilization becomes sexually disorganized, it cannot seem to channel the erotic energy of the young into making stable, loving marriages in which to raise children.

“The result is a large increase in social problems, an increasingly large government that steps in to try to solve these problems, more suffering for children, and lower levels of happiness for adults, especially for women. If the trends continue long enough, it calls into question the capacity of the society or civilization to transmit itself into the future.”

Baptist Press: Why To Be Skeptical About SSM Poll Results

The Baptist Press recently sought out NOM Chairman Maggie Gallagher's comments on recent polling claiming that a majority of Americans support redefining marriage:

It appears there is a large percentage of people who actually oppose redefining marriage but are afraid to say so to a stranger on the phone.

"I think the vigorous negative campaign to shame people into silence, starting with Carrie Prejean and now continuing with Peter Vidmar and Paul Clement, combined with the relative silence of conservative media in dealing with this issue, is starting to affect polls, although it is not affecting actual elections," Maggie Gallagher, founder of the National Organization for Marriage, told Baptist Press. Prejean was the Miss USA runner-up who publicly affirmed her believes in traditional marriage. Vidmar was pressured out of a role with the U.S. Olympic Committee for his opposition to "gay marriage," while Clement is the high-profile attorney representing the House in its defense of the Defense of Marriage Act. "... They are successfully shutting down this debate, and making people afraid to say what they think, more than they are changing hearts and minds at this point."

New polling in Minnesota -- which will vote on a constitutional amendment next year defining marriage as between a man and a woman -- supports Gallagher. A Star-Tribune poll in May that used live callers showed 55 percent of residents oppose the amendment and only 39 percent support it. But days later a SurveyUSA poll -- an automated survey -- showed the opposite, with 51 percent of voters supporting it and 40 percent opposing it. Another automated survey, by Public Policy Polling, showed a near-deadlock, with 47 percent opposing it and 46 percent supporting it.

Heritage Releases A Marshall Plan for Marriage: Rebuilding Our Shattered Homes

Here is the abstract:

Marriage and family are declining in America, following a trend well established in Europe. This breakdown of the American family has dire implications for American society and the U.S. economy. Halting and reversing the sustained trends of nearly four decades will not happen by accident. The federal, state, and local governments need to eliminate marriage penalties created by the tax code and welfare programs and instead use existing resources to better encourage and support family life.

Read the rest here.

The report goes on to lay out four principles for rebuilding a marriage culture:
  • The decision to marry is inherently economically beneficial to couples and their children, if any. Any form of financial penalty in tax policy that masks or subverts this reality and deters marriage should be eliminated.
  • Policymakers and program managers should encourage pro-marriage messaging in existing government programs and other already available resources.
  • States should recognize that a significant percentage of divorcing couples, especially those with children, would respond to reconciliation efforts and restore their marriages. States should develop policies and programs that maximize the reconciliation option.
  • Policymakers should study, recognize, and reward success in marriage, recognizing the power of the bully pulpit and civic leadership to shape consensus and define progress.

Audio: Maggie Gallagher on the Religion, Politics, & Culture Radio Show

NOM Chairman Maggie Gallagher was interviewed for about half an hour this week on the Religion, Politics & the Culture radio show with Dennis O'Donovan discussing DOMA, the future of marriage and several related topics - listen to the full interview here:

Video Round-Up: GOP Candidates for President Speak Out on Marriage

We've been featuring a few of the GOP presidential candidates and their recent statements on marriage.

Lisa Grass has posted videos of what these candidates (and possible candidates) have said most recently about marriage: Michele Bachmann, Hermain Cain, Chris Christie (though he says he will not run), Newt Gingrinch, Rudy Giuliani (who has made some rumblings that he could enter the race), Jon Huntsman, Ron Paul, Tim Pawlenty, Mitt Romney and Rick Santorum.

U.S. House Backs Defense of Marriage Act in S.F. Court

In the SanFran Chronicle:

Congressional Republicans have opened their defense of a law denying federal benefits to same-sex spouses in a San Francisco court, praising traditional marriage and slamming President Obama for abandoning the 1996 statute.

In papers filed with a federal judge, a lawyer chosen by House Republican leaders to back the Defense of Marriage Act in the nation's courts suggested Obama acted illegally by declaring in February that he considered the law unconstitutional and would no longer defend it.

"The president's constitutional duty to 'take care that the laws be faithfully executed' ... surely includes the duty to defend as well as enforce the law," said the attorney, Paul Clement, a former U.S. solicitor general under President George W. Bush.

... Clement's brief, filed last Friday, went further. Congress, he said, could legally withhold benefits from gay and lesbian couples because "opposite-sex marriage is a deeply rooted, historic institution - and a fundamental constitutional right - and same-sex marriage is neither of these things."Congress could also rely on "basic biological differences," Clement said, because only opposite-sex couples are capable of having children, and "encouraging child-rearing by a married mother and father is a legitimate governmental interest."

Photo: Sen. Rev. Diaz's Bronx Rally for Marriage

We missed this picture showing a wide-angle view of all the supporters who braved the rain for marriage on May 15th in the Bronx!

The Worst Argument for SSM?

We've seem some pretty silly ones, but this one probably takes the cake:

The lowest temperature this year was minus 22 in January, while on Tuesday, the high was 103 -- a range of 125 degrees. We Minnesotans take that incredible diversity in stride like few other places in the world.

Can't the state that tolerates these temperature differences also embrace a wide range of marriage types? Passing a constitutional amendment to restrict marriage to heterosexual unions would be like passing an amendment restricting the weather to 68 degrees and sunny.

Both amendments would be futile and would undermine what makes Minnesota one of the most special places on Earth: our diversity in all things. --Robert Alberti in the Star Tribune

Gay Irish Candidate for President, Once Leading in the Polls, Loses Support after Revelations He Advocates Legalizing Adult-Child Consensual Sex

LifeSiteNews:

Irish presidential hopeful David Norris is fighting to maintain his candidacy amidst even more revelations that he supports “classical pedophilia” and opposes any law specifying an age of consent for sex.

On its front page yesterday, the Irish Daily Mail ran the headline, “I don’t believe in an age of consent,” and said that Norris had given an interview last year in which he said (in the words of the paper) that “prostitution and all drugs should be legalized,” and “he was pro-abortion and advocated pederasty.”

... Norris was a front-runner in the Irish Republic’s Presidential campaign until last week, when a ten-year-old interview was unearthed in the media in which he made comments supporting pederasty, calling it “classical pedophilia.”

Norris told the magazine Magill, “There’s a lot of nonsense about pedophilia.” “I think there is a complete and utter hysteria about this subject,” he said, insisting that children were capable of giving informed consent to sex, saying, “The law should take into account consent rather than age.”

He also said that child victims of sexual abuse are sometimes more harmed by the condemnation of the abuse, and said that incest should only be banned in cases where a victim could be impregnated.