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Group Receives Approval for Prop 8 Repeal Signature Gathering

In October, Equality California chose to abandon an attempt to repeal Prop 8 at the ballot because they believed they would lose.

Another group however still intends to give it a shot:

A gay rights group that wants to repeal the state constitutional amendment that stripped same-sex couples in California of the right to get married received clearance Friday to start gathering signatures for a measure that would rescind the gay marriage ban known as Proposition 8.

Los Angeles-based Love Honor Cherish has until May 14 to collect the 807,615 voter signatures required to qualify its initiative for the November 2012 ballot, the secretary of state's office said.

... The repeal initiative submitted by Love Honor Cherish would strike Proposition 8 and state instead "that marriage is between only two persons and shall not be restricted on the basis of race, color, national origin, sex, gender, sexual orientation, or religion," according to a summary prepared by the California Attorney General's office. -- The Mercury News

Video: Ron Paul Attacks Bachmann and Santorum for Hating Muslims and Gays

National Review's Katrino Trinko:

In an interview that aired last night, Ron Paul accused Michele Bachmann, with whom he sparred over Middle East foreign policy during Thursday night’s debate, of being motivated by a personal animus toward Muslims.

“She doesn’t like Muslims. She hates Muslims. She hates them. She wants to go get them,” Paul said on The Tonight Show with Jay Leno when asked what he thought of Bachmann.

... When Leno commented that Rick Santorum seemed to be constantly talking about gay people, Paul said, “Gay people and Muslims.”

British Government Backs the Idea that Orientation Trumps Religious Liberty


The UK Daily Mail:

Four individuals who have been disciplined at work or lost their jobs after refusing to remove crosses or to conform to gay rights laws are attempting to overturn the decisions of British courts and tribunal.

They had hoped for support from Ministers after a former Archbishop of Canterbury, Lord Carey, appealed to Prime Minister David Cameron on their behalf.

...But the Government told the European Court of Human Rights that it backed the British judges and does not accept that the Christians have suffered discrimination.

To the dismay of Lord Carey, the Government even said that wearing a cross or a crucifix was not a ‘generally recognised’ Christian practice – even though Church leaders say it is a hugely significant symbol.

...In landmark hearings, the court in Strasbourg is to consider the cases of Shirley Chaplin, a Devon nurse banned from working on the wards after she failed to hide a cross she had worn since the age of 16, and Nadia Eweida, a check-in clerk for British Airways who was told to remove her small crucifix at work.

StarTribune Editors: "Hamline Created its Emmer Mess"

The editors of the Star Tribune take Tom Emmer's side against Hamline U's discriminatory hiring process:

Hamline University officials apparently forgot to consult their own diversity policy as they weighed, then abruptly ended, former Republican gubernatorial candidate Tom Emmer's teaching future at the St. Paul liberal arts school.

According to the policy, Hamline is "committed to ... developing and maintaining academic/co-curricular programs and university climate that promises a responsible, civil and open exchange of ideas.''

Hamline's apparent bungling of employment negotiations with Emmer suggests that commitment only goes so far, thatconservatives such as Emmer are not welcome on campus.

While this page strongly differs with Emmer's strident views on taxes, health reform, state's rights and social issues, especially when it comes to the state's proposed marriage amendment, the Hamline incident raises disturbing questions about academic freedom and administrative backbone at one of Minnesota's most respected educational institutions.

Although Hamline officials declined comment for this editorial, it appears that the university reneged on at least one viable job offer, possibly two, because of last-minute faculty objections to Emmer's politics, particularly his stance on gay marriage.

... It's unclear who at Hamline ultimately quashed Emmer's employment. The university not only owes Emmer an explanation, but the broader community as well.

... while many may find Emmer's stances alarming, the reality is that 43.2 percent of those who voted in the 2010 election found him the best gubernatorial candidate. Are those Minnesotans not welcome at Hamline either?

Video: Ron Paul Refuses to Say How He Would Protect Marriage From the Courts

On Jay Leno, Ron Paul again refuses to say he opposes gay marriage, refuses to say he would defend marriage if the courts order gay marriage, and again reiterates his personal hobbyhorse that he would prefer if marriage were not a legal status:

A Santorum Surge?

A snapshot of what the press is noticing:

Ben Smith of Politico: "A Super PAC backing Rick Santorum is spending some real money -- $200,000 -- to boost the hardest working man in lesser candidacy, making the straightforward case to conservatives that he's the one they can trust." [watch video here]

Jennifer Rubin of The Washington Post: "A state party operative calls Santorum’s ground game “real, but it’s quiet.” He pegs Santorum’s support in the “low to mid-teens.” Well, ifthat is the case he could move up into the top few spots, becoming the “surprise” story that really wasn’t a surprise."

Des Moines Register blog: "The campaign of former U.S. Sen. Rick Santorum has sent a direct-mail piece of political to 60,000 households of likely Iowa caucusgoers in an effort to bolster his bid for the Republican presidential nomination. The piece touts the premise that Santorum won’t “surrender” on issues important to social conservatives."

The Iowa Republican: "Republican Presidential Candidate Rick Santorum released his first Iowa statewide TV advertisement, “Sing, Sing, Sing,” focusing on Senator Santorum’s commitment to traditional American values, his successes in fighting for conservative causes, and his commitment to protect America. This advertisement will begin airing across Iowa on Thursday." [watch video here]

David Catenese of Politico: "...Santorum has built up a committed base of voters who appear genuinely flattered by his willingness to visit and appeal across Iowa — to the point that he was introduced at an event Monday as the state’s “third senator.” Now, he says these people are on the verge of delivering a showing in the Iowa caucuses as surprising as his fourth-place finish in the Ames Straw Poll in August, proving that the fluctuations in the race have overlooked the core of support he’s built.

Pew Study: Marriage Rate Falls Below 50%

The Christian Science Monitor:

Barely half of US adults are currently married, a record low, and the continuing downward trend will result in less than half being married in just a few years, according to a study released Wednesday by the Pew Research Institute.

While the study did not examine reasons for the trend, several sociologists, cultural anthropologists, and others caution against judging the statistics superficially. They agree with the findings that many, non-romantic factors are at work – from economics to education and expanding the definition of marriage to merely delaying it – but say it would be incorrect to conclude that the institution is completely on the rocks.

Others say the decline of two-parent families with stable relationships bodes ill because it leads children to perform poorly at school, enter lives of drugs and crime, and have trouble with relationships throughout life.

Still, one social scientist sees some positive trends among the negative ones:

Galena Rhodes, senior researcher at the Center for Marital and Family Studies at the University of Denver, sees a very positive trend in young people waiting to get their act together before making the crucial decision to get married.

That there is a “rise in those young people who want to get more education and find the right partner to settle down with is a very encouraging piece of good news for this institution,” she says. She says the young people have looked at the growing number of divorces and don’t want to go down that road.

“The fact that kids do best when they grow up with both married parents is one of the strongest findings of psychology,” she says.

She would like to see relationship counseling be an education staple for youth well ahead of getting married. “Part of the reason that fewer are married is that they are waiting longer for the right reasons.”

Eugene Volokh: Is Hamline U. "Seeking to be an Ideological Cocoon"?

Eugene Volokh, who runs the popular legal blog Volokh Conspiracy, writes about the situation of Tom Emmer and Hamline University:

If the university did indeed refuse to hire Emmer because of his views on same-sex marriage, that would be a very serious breach of traditional and sound academic freedom norms, and a sign that the Hamline business school is seeking to be an ideological cocoon — for its faculty and its students — rather than a place where debate and academic freedom are genuinely present and valued. Of course it would send a pretty poor message to its students, who would rightly wonder whether a faculty that does this to an appointments candidate would likewise retaliate against students who express unorthodox opinions. And naturally it would have an effect far beyond the question of same-sex marriage: Students and prospective family members who see an institution being willing to exclude someone who shares the same views as about half the country would likely worry even more that it would exclude or retaliate against people who have (certain kinds of) less popular views.

Iowa Paper: Gingrich Calls for Marriage Amendment

The Sioux City Journal:

Republican presidential candidate Newt Gingrich pledged Thursday to push for a Constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage.

The former U.S. House speaker was asked about the volatile issue at a campaign stop just hours before the GOP presidential debate here. Gingrich said amending the Constitution to define marriage as between man and woman would resolve legal conflicts created by judicial rulings and a patchwork of state laws.

Iowa, site of the first-in-the-nation caucuses, is among several states that have legalized same-sex marriage. Gingrich questioned whether those unions would be recognized if they moved to states with traditional marriage laws.

"We as a country have to sort this out, because we can't have 50 sets of rules," Gingrich told an audience of about 40 people at Luciano's restaurant, a few blocks from site of Thursday night's debate at the Sioux City Convention Center.

His comments came on the same day the National Organization for Marriage said Gingrich signed its anti-gay marriage pledge, which calls on candidates to advocate for a Constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage and to appoint a commission to investigate claims of supposed harassment against individuals who oppose marriage equality.

70 of Scotland's Largest Evangelical Churches Send Letter Opposing SSM

The Scotsman:

A LETTER signed by more than 70 of Scotland's largest evangelical churches will be handed over to St Andrew’s House today, opposing plans to introduce same sex marriage.

The event will be marked with a rally and backed by the campaign group Scotland For Marriage, which wants to maintain the traditional definition of marriage.

... "Our chief concern is that Scottish society will be the poorer if the definition of marriage is rewritten. Marriage is foundational and so much else rests upon it.

"You cannot radically alter the definition of marriage without it having knock-on effects on so much else in our society."

A Scottish Government consultation asking if marriage should be allowed for gay people through a civil or religious ceremony closed earlier this month after attracting more than 50,000 responses.

Dave Greatorex, of Scotland for Marriage said: "Once again we see how widespread the opposition to redefining marriage really is."

The 5 Secrets of Happy Marriages

Time Magazine's Healthland blog on the recent State of Our Unions: Marriage in America report "When Baby Makes Three":

The authors came up with five qualities that happily married parents share. Moms were more likely to be happy in marriage if they had, in order:

  1. Sexual satisfaction
  2. Commitment
  3. Generosity to husband, including small acts of service like making coffee for him in the morning, expressing affection, and being willing to forgive
  4. Good attitude toward raising kids (i.e., she wanted them)
  5. Social support from family and friends

The top five predictors for happily wed dads were the same, except for No. 5, which was a shared "marital spirituality"; e.g., the couple says God is at the center of their marriage. Other characteristics of a content couple included having a similar faith and sharing the chores. (My personal favorite sentence in the report: "[W]omen are more likely to report that they are sexually satisfied when they report that they share housework with their husbands."

Video: Jim Fannin Explains How His 90 Second Rule Can Help Improve Marriage

Married life can be full of distractions. "Life Coach" Jim Fannin explains how focusing on your family at certain times can help build strong relationships:

Faith in America to Bank of America, Cisco: Fire Frank Turek

"Faith in America" a North Carolina group which allegedly includes Christians committed to eliminating "faith-based bigotry" actually wants major corporations to fire people who oppose same-sex marriage:

“We want these two companies, who have been recognized as LGBT-friendly, to rethink their evaluation of Frank Turek,” Faith in America Executive Director Brent Childers said in a release on Wednesday. “Specifically, we want Bank of America and CISCO to publicly denounce the unique and very harmful stigma and hostility that Frank Turek endorses and promotes..."

Meanwhile, the gay press acknowledges NOM's role in getting the companies to adopt nondiscrimination policies towards people on all sides of the gay marriage debate:

Turek later teamed up with the anti-gay National Organization for Marriage and their new Marriage Anti-Defamation Alliance. In videos posted to NOM’s site and in action alerts emailed to supporters, Turek claimed he had been discriminated against solely because of his views on marriage.

The two companies finally gave way to Turek and the National Organization for Marriage last month.

Nobody should be afraid of losing their job because they speak civilly in the public square against (or for!) gay marriage, in our view.

The Hill Reports Gingrich Signs NOM Marriage Pledge

Then ends by claiming his support of marriage "could be dangerous in the general election."

Hah. Hah. Hah. Ho, Ho, Ho.

Gee, that's why President Obama claims he opposes gay marriage too, right?

Michigan Student Sues School After Being Punished and Humiliated for Expressing Religious Views

The Thomas More Law Center:

The Thomas More Law Center filed a federal lawsuit yesterday afternoon against the Howell Public School District located in Howell, Michigan, and teacher, Johnson (“Jay”) McDowell, for punishment and humiliation heaped on a student after he expressed his religious belief opposing homosexuality when asked by the teacher during class. [copy of lawsuit]

The student, Daniel Glowacki, a junior at Howell High at the time of the incident, was specifically asked by McDowell about his feelings on homosexuals. Daniel responded that as a Catholic he was offended by the gay and lesbian lifestyle. Because of his answer, Daniel was ordered to leave the classroom under threat of suspension.

As news of the incident spread, homosexual activists across the country hailed McDowell as a hero and vilified Daniel and his family, as “bigots”, referring to Daniel’s religious objections to the homosexual agenda as “hate” speech. McDowell is head of the school’s teachers union. The Michigan Education Association, the state teachers’ union, supported McDowell’s actions.

National lesbian TV host, Ellen DeGeneres got in on the anti-Glowacki campaign. Daniel even became the subject of a school assembly.

The incident occurred on October 20, 2010, the day that Daniel’s Economics class teacher, Jay McDowell, wore a purple “Tyler’s Army” t-shirt, as part of a national campaign promoted by the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation to highlight alleged “bullying” of homosexuals.