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Using Civil Unions as a Legal Weapon Against Marriage

The European Court of Human Rights has rejected a basic human right to same sex marriage.  But U.K. gay rights activists are now seeking to use Great Britain's civil union law to strike down its marriage laws.

This is clearly a coordinated strategy now.  We've seen it in Connecticticut, California, and now Great Britain.

It is not impossible to provide practical benefits for same-sex couples without endangering your state's marriage laws, but the laws have to be drawn carefully if the goal is to provide some compassionate help for those ineligible for marriage, while retaining your marriage laws.

But it's much harder:

"Peter Tatchell, who is fronting the 'Equal Love' campaign, . . . .said: "Since there is no difference in the rights and responsibilities involved in gay civil marriages and heterosexual civil partnerships, there is no justification for having two mutually exclusive and discriminatory systems.

"Banning black couples from getting married would provoke uproar. The prohibition on gay marriages should arouse similar outrage.

"The ban on same-sex civil marriages and opposite-sex civil partnerships is a form of legal sexual apartheid - one law for gay couples and another law for heterosexual partners. Two wrongs don't make a right."

The campaign's legal advisor, Robert Wintemute, expressed confidence that the court would strike down the ban.

He said of the current laws: "It's discriminatory and obnoxious, like having separate drinking fountains or beaches for different racial groups, even though the water is the same.

"The only function of the twin bans is to mark lesbian and gay people as socially and legally inferior to heterosexual people.

"I am confident that we have a good chance of persuading the European Court of Human Rights that the UK's system of segregating couples into two 'separate but equal' legal institutions violates the European Convention. I predict that same-sex couples will be granted access to marriage in the UK."

The application to the ECHR will be filed by all eight couples simultaneously today. Should the court find that the law contradicts European conventions, then the UK will be obliged to make changes."

What Does This Mean for the Gay Marriage Debate?

Maggie on NRO about DADT.

"Whether You Like it Or Not"

Vallejo parents who were upset at their children being exposed to indoctrination suggesting that all family forms are just the same were ignored by the school board, who ruled their children will be exposed without notification, without right to object.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=26SFLUBJQtw&feature=player_embedded

Panic in the Streets over the Rainbow Flag

From Dr. J at NOM's Ruth Institute:

Wow! I really hit a nerve talking about the rainbow and what it does or does not symbolize. It is very interesting to me that this offhand discussion of symbolism struck such a nerve. Trouble is, the various commentators can’t seem to get their stories straight.

One headline says, “Anti-Gay Ruth Institute Wants to Steal the Rainbow Flag from Gays.”

Meanwhile, gay columnist Dan Savage says, “we’ll let you have your f**king rainbows back,” as long as we completely capitulate on every single substantive point. (Such a deal!) The clear implication is that he thinks he is in a position to give the rainbow back. This sorta kinda suggests he thought all along that he did own it. (Note the charming language. And the charming headline on the story where it was reported.)

In contrast with these guys who evidently think they own the rainbow and are irritated that I pointed out its obvious Biblical symbolism, there are another whole batch of people calling me petty for caring about something as insubstantial as the meaning of a piece of cloth. (Some of the comments on the blog are of that sort.) If it is so unimportant, why the hysteria? That little interview has generated more attention than any other commentary I’ve done on seemingly more substantial matters.

I’m inclined to agree with our commenter Leland: my choice of Prop 8 courtroom attire and a five minute interview with One News Now has caused “widespread panic.” When this many people start circling the wagons to ridicule someone from mutually contradictory positions, there is definitely panic in the air.

Welcome Friewis

From Dr. J at NOM's Ruth Institute:

Me outside the courtroom on Prop 8 trial day

Welcome to all the new visitors from this site. Now that you are over here, I call you my FRIEnds w/ Wrong Ideas. (I don’t have enemies.) What with Christmas parties and all, I haven’t had time to extend a proper welcome to all my new Friends from Queerty and TPM and other such places. Evidently, I stirred up a hornet’s nest with my comment about the rainbow flag. Glad you’re over here to talk with us.

Full disclosure: If you stay around over here long enough, like Nerdy Girl and Sean, you become my Peeps with Wrong Ideas, or PEEPWIs. And once you start showing up over here, I start praying for you. Just so you know.

Take Back The Rainbow?

From Dr. J at NOM's Ruth Institute:

More press over Dr. Morse’s scarf statement.

By Alexandra Petri

Even now, in the midst of all the hubbub over Don’t Ask Don’t Tell repeal, Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse of the Ruth Institute, based in San Diego, wants the rainbow back from the “Rainbow Coalition” of gay rights activists.

“We can’t simply let that go by,” she told OneNewsNow. “Families put rainbows in their children’s nurseries. Little Christian preschools will have rainbows…Noah’s Ark and all the animals…. Those are great Christian symbols, great Jewish symbols.”

Dr. Morse also noted that she wore a rainbow scarf to the Prop 8 appeal hearings to symbolize that the rainbow belonged to everyone. I’m sure that wasn’t confusing at all.

But I think she has a point: life must be difficult if you’re a proponent of traditional marriage who happens to love rainbows.

“I’m wearing these to express disapproval for your way of life,” you have to scream, whenever parades start moving towards you. “It’s complicated!”

You hang giant rainbow flags outside your window at all times, because the rainbow played a prominent role in the Bible, but then you have to explain to people who show up expecting some sort of parade that not only did you not mean to welcome them, you actively disapprove of their very existence.

You hung a rainbow mobile over your son’s crib for years, and he started to assume that you were a “cool mom” who would be okay with whoever he turned out to be. This was not accurate, and you had to sit him down and have The Talk about how this was not God’s plan.

“Look, I love rainbows,” you say. “I just hate that people see you wearing a rainbow and just assume you’re tolerant. That’s just so presumptuous. I mean, when I see a rainbow in the sky, I certainly don’t think God is in favor of gay marriage.”

Keep reading.

Anderson Cooper's Ridiculist!

It's so funny.  Anderson Cooper tries to make fun of Dr. Jennifer Roeback Morse for saying she wore a rainbow scarf to the Prop 8 trial to show that gay rights groups don't own the rainbow.

Funny,  Cooper doesn't show a clip of Dr. Jennifer Roeback Morse actually saying anything, because that would just point out that she's cheerfully saying exactly what he's saying: "Nobody owns the rainbow!"

I bet Anderson Cooper, who I actually often enjoy watching because he often strives to be fair,  didn't even look at the video of Jenny's remarks, he probably just trusted his staff's inaccurate and silly micharacterizations that fit  their personal stereotype of what such a person would say.

Nothing like making up angry right-wing straw men (or women!) and then knocking them down.

Jenny's a great communicator.  Musn't let her voice appear on your show.  Better to just to make ridiculist claims.

Prop 8 Opponents React to NOM’s Prop 8 coverage

After the Prop 8 oral arguments on December 6th, I told you how Judge Reinhardt had called out Ted Olson and David Boies on their tactical maneuvers designed to prevent Judge Walker’s Prop 8 ruling from ever being reviewed by a higher court – and how Olson and Boies are desperate to keep the Ninth Circuit limited to Judge Walker’s unbelievably biased findings of "fact." That’s one of our important roles here at NOM – making sure you get the full story, and not just the edited version the New York Times wants you to read.

But apparently Olson and Boies didn’t appreciate the truth.

The American Foundation for Equal Rights (AFER) – the name chosen by the Hollywood insiders who teamed up with Olson and Boies to bring the Prop 8 lawsuit – is sending a fundraising email around to its supporters, calling on them to "fight back against NOM’s discriminatory and divisive efforts to uphold Prop 8."

And get this, AFER, a group backed by millions from Hollywood insiders, is worried over our current $1 Million Marriage Challenge Campaign! They know our track record – that we were the largest single donor to the Prop 8 campaign, and have committed at least $1 million to protect Prop 8 in court. And they know we don’t have to match their millions dollar for dollar. As long as we have the resources to keep on fighting and make sure the truth is heard, we can be confident that truth and love will ultimately prevail.


Thanks to your support this past year, we see many amazing opportunities on the horizon in 2011. Opportunities to roll back same-sex marriage in New Hampshire and Iowa. To pass marriage amendments in states like Minnesota, Indiana and Pennsylvania. And so much more.

With your help, NOM will be there every step of the way. Getting you the unvarnished truth on what’s going on. Defending Prop 8 all the way to the Supreme Court. Lobbying for marriage in statehouses and local legislative offices, and reaching out to grassroots supporters who are not yet involved in this nationwide struggle to protect marriage.

Will you join us today? Your financial gift this time of year will mean so much as we look to make 2011 our most successful year yet!

Is the Hate Card the Recourse of Those Unwilling to Engage the Debate?

In the Washington Post, Matthew Franck argues the insistent use of the "hate" card to shut down debate is actually the last recourse of those who do not want to engage in reasonable debate:

"Some stories from recent months: A religion instructor at a midwestern state university explains in an e-mail to students the rational basis for Catholic teaching on homosexuality. He is denounced by a student for "hate speech" and is dismissed from his position. (He is later reinstated - for now.) . . .

On the west coast, a state law school moves to marginalize a Christian student group that requires its members to pledge they will conform to orthodox Christian doctrines on sexual morality. In the history of the school, no student group has ever been denied campus recognition. But this one is, and the U.S. Supreme Court lets the school get away with it.

The Southern Poverty Law Center, a once-respected civil rights organization, publishes a "report" identifying a dozen or so "anti-gay hate groups," some for no apparent reason other than their vocal opposition to same-sex marriage. Other marriage advocacy groups are put on a watch list.

On a left-wing Web site, a petition drive succeeds in pressuring Apple to drop an "app" from its iTunes store for the Manhattan Declaration, . . .The offense? The app is a "hate fest." Fewer than 8,000 people petition for the app to go; more than five times as many petition Apple for its reinstatement, so far to no avail.

Finally, on "$#*! My Dad Says," a CBS sitcom watched by more than 10 million weekly viewers, an entire half-hour episode is devoted to a depiction of the disapproval of homosexuality as bigotry, a form of unreasoning intolerance that clings to the past with a coarse and mean-spirited judgmentalism. And this on a show whose title character is famously irascible and politically incorrect, but who in this instance turns out to be fashionably cuddly and up-to-date.

What's going on here? Clearly a determined effort is afoot, in cultural bastions controlled by the left, to anathematize traditional views of sexual morality, particularly opposition to same-sex marriage, as the expression of "hate" that cannot be tolerated in a decent civil society. The argument over same-sex marriage must be brought to an end, and the debate considered settled. Defenders of traditional marriage must be likened to racists, as purveyors of irrational fear and loathing. Opposition to same-sex marriage must be treated just like support for now long-gone anti-miscegenation laws.

This strategy is the counsel of desperation. In 30 states, the people have protected traditional marriage by constitutional amendment: In no state where the question has been put directly to voters has same-sex marriage been adopted by democratic majorities. But the advocates of a revolution in the law of marriage see an opportunity in Perry v. Schwarzenegger , currently pending in the U.S. Court of Appeals for the 9th Circuit. In his district court ruling in the case in August, Judge Vaughn Walker held that California's Proposition 8 enacted, "without reason, a private moral view" about the nature of marriage that cannot properly be embodied in public policy. Prop 8's opponents are hoping for similar reasoning from the appeals court and, ultimately, from the Supreme Court.

The SPLC's report on "hate groups" gives the game away. It notes that no group is listed merely for "viewing homosexuality as unbiblical." But when describing standard expressions of Christian teaching, that we must love the sinner while hating the sin, the SPLC treats them as "kinder, gentler language" that only covers up unreasoning hatred for gay people. Christians are free to hold their "biblical" views, you see, but we know that opposition to gay marriage cannot have any basis in reason. Although protected by the Constitution, these religious views must be sequestered from the public square, where reason, as distinguished from faith, must prevail.

Marginalize, privatize, anathematize: These are the successive goals of gay-marriage advocates when it comes to their opponents.

First, ignore the arguments of traditional marriage's defenders, that marriage has always existed in order to bring men and women together so that children will have mothers and fathers, and that same-sex marriage is not an expansion but a dismantling of the institution. Instead, assert that no rational arguments along these lines even exist and so no refutation is necessary, and insinuate that those who merely want to defend marriage are "anti-gay thugs" or "theocrats" or "Taliban," as some critics have said.

Second, drive the wedge between faith and reason, chasing traditional religious arguments on marriage and morality underground, as private forms of irrationality.

Finally, decree the victory of the new public morality - here the judges have their role in the liberal strategy - and read the opponents of the new dispensation out of polite society, as the crazed bigots of our day.

. . .[B]ut the charge of "hate" is not a contribution to argument; it's the recourse of people who would rather not have an argument at all.

That is no way to conduct public business on momentous questions in a free democracy."

Vote for Marriage in RNC Chairman’s Debate

Coming up, we have an important opportunity to help make sure that the Republican Party remains firmly committed to the cause of marriage. And we need your help.

On January 3rd, Americans for Tax Reform and the Susan B. Anthony List will be co-hosting the 2011 RNC Chairman’s Debate, giving the American people (and RNC voters) a chance to question the candidates on key issues ranging from national defense, to deficit spending, to protecting marriage and the family. The next RNC Chairman’s views on these issues will be a major factor in shaping party message, budget, and objectives as we begin heading into the 2012 election cycle.

Every question to be asked at the debate is currently being voted on at RNCDebate.org. The most popular questions will be asked at the January 3rd debate.

So please take a moment today to go to RNCDebate.org and vote for marriage. In just a moment, I’ll give detailed instructions for what we need to do.

Our own chairman Maggie Gallagher will be at the January 3 debate, and was invited by Susan B. Anthony List President Marjorie Dannenfelser to participate in a series of pre-debate interviews with various candidates for the RNC Chairmanship. Click here to watch Maggie's questions for Saul Anuzis, RNC candidate from Michigan (or watch the full 9-minute interview here).

There is tremendous pressure from inside-the-Beltway, establishment Republicans to water down the party’s commitment to marriage, compromising with gay marriage advocates or trying to sweep the issue under the rug in hopes that it will go away. But it isn’t going anywhere – not with a Supreme Court ruling likely looming in the next two years – and we need a RNC Chairman who is willing to make the case for marriage, religious liberty and the proper role of the judiciary, investing resources to advance the cause of marriage both nationally and at the state and local level all across the country.

Polls show that upwards of 80% of Republicans firmly support marriage as the union of a husband and wife. There should be no doubt about where the RNC stands on this important issue. Help make your voice heard today, by visiting RNCDebate.org and placing your vote for marriage!

Here’s what you need to do.

1. Register. Go to RNCDebate.org and click the REGISTER button. You’ll need to provide an email address and create a password in order to vote.

2. Check your email. An email confirming your registration will be sent to the email address you provide. Click on the link in the email to confirm your account.

3. Vote for marriage! The primary marriage question is item #24 (scroll down to the question and click on the UP arrow to give it a “thumbs up” vote). The question reads:

Question #24
“Surveys uniformly show that over 80% of Republicans support the traditional definition of marriage. GOP candidates who support gay marriage like Dede Scozzafava, Bill Binnie and Tom Campbell have been trounced in GOP primaries. In the 31 states where marriage has appeared on the ballot, including in deep blue states like California and Maine, the voters in every state have rejected gay marriage and voted in favor of traditional marriage. Yet most candidates have been encouraged by the RNC to avoid speaking up on the marriage issue. Will you continue this policy or will you encourage candidates to make their position on marriage clear to voters?”

And while you’re there, you may also want to vote for Question #23:

“As chairman, what specifically would you do differently than current and past administrations when it comes to the issues of Life and Marriage? Will you highlight these two critical issues in political advertising programs?”

Thus far, only a few hundred people have voted for any question in the RNC Debate poll. With your help, we can send yet one more strong message to the RNC, reminding them that marriage is a core issue for Republican voters, and urging them to elect a chairman who will be steadfast and unwavering in his or her support for marriage.

Finally, as we head toward Christmas next week, please consider a gift to protect marriage. Your gift right now is especially important, as every dollar raised between now and the end of the year will be matched, doubling its impact. We have just a few weeks to prepare for next year’s legislative sessions, and need your help to ensure that we have the resources to immediately counter every threat that arises. Please make your most generous gift to the NOM Marriage Challenge today!

NOM Update

NOM's new ad, "The Ironic Steve Jobs," has been launched on YouTube--the great counterrevolution has begun! Click the image to learn more!

It's been really fun showing this ad to people. I just got off the phone with a friend in New York--he's a major business leader--who told me, "I almost fell off my chair when I saw this ad--it's spectacular!"

You remember the back story, right? The Manhattan Declaration is a thoughtful and civil statement calling on Christians to defend life, marriage and religious liberty as core values. NOM's founding chairman Robby George helped draft it, alongside Chuck Colson. I signed it. Maggie signed it. So did major, mainstream religious figures like Archbishop Wuerl and about 500,000 Christians.

Apple's own reviewers certified that the Manhattan Declaration iPhone app was free from offensive content. But then 7000 LGBT activists signed a position saying they considered the Manhattan Declaration offensive. Steve Jobs pulled it, and his rep called it "offensive."

Now, it's Steve Jobs's company, we understand that. We are not asking the government to intervene. When Steve Jobs donated $100,000 to defeat Prop 8, we didn't try to hurt his company or boycott his products, as so many gay rights groups did to pro-marriage donors. We never organized to try to prevent Planned Parenthood or pro-gay-marriage groups from posting their own apps, however personally offensive we might find them.

But Apple has always positioned its brand as the champion of free thought, creativity and free minds. So it's pretty hypocritical and jarring now for Steve Jobs to make Apple into the new thought police, protecting customers from ideas he considers "offensive."

Steve Jobs issuing what his own iconic ad once called "information purification directives" to protect Apple customers from "contradictory and confusing truths." Pretty ironic, huh, for the spunky little company which saw itself as taking on Big Brother?

NOM's dynamite new ad calls Steve Jobs out for being untrue to his own values, and to the company's brand.

I need your help spreading the word--and this "spectacular" ad which makes people fall off their chairs!

Go to view it on NOM's website. Next to the title there's a button that says "Share This." Click on the "Share This" link and send it to your friends!

In the tech and business world, people are sitting up and taking notice.

"NOM does have a point," said Advertising Age's reporter-blogger. "Let's not mistake the clever '1984' for anything more than slick marketing."

Business Net's columnist Jim Edwards says we are making "Steve Jobs look ridiculous":

"Thus, Apple's policy of approving--or rejecting--apps based on their content has managed to make an anti-gay group look like it's standing up for freedom, and Jobs look like someone who doesn't want his customers to access anything he disagrees with."

But we have to keep the heat on. Right now the Manhattan Declaration sponsors, like the good Christians they are, are working overtime to meet the unfair objections of their critics. They've removed a questionnaire some found offensive and resubmitted the app.

One of my favorite quotes comes from Charisma News, which kindly posted a link: "Apple was not immediately available for comment." No, not immediately, but we'll keep the pressure up!

So far, as I write, more than 12,000 of you have viewed the "Ironic Steve Jobs" ad on YouTube. If you haven't yet, do something for me: Can you go there and watch it? (And remember, click the "Share This" link to spread the word to your friends!)

Tell your friends they have to go and watch this great video! 90 seconds of pure unadulterated pleasure wherein you and I hoist Steve Jobs "on his own petard," as the Business Net reporter put it.

The internet was supposed to launch an information revolution for freedom. Can we stand by and let one incredibly wealthy man use his market share to try to squeeze thoughtful debate from the public square?

Now you know me: I like to think big. Wouldn't it be great if Steve Jobs woke up every morning for a week seeing that ad as he sipped his morning cup of joe?

To make that happen, we need to find at least 483 people today willing to donate $10 to turn this internet ad into a TV ad in Silicon Valley. Would you be one of those? Remember, anything you donate between now and the end of the year will magically double, thanks to a generous donor who's offered to match, today, anything you give. $10 to put this ad in Steve Jobs's breakfast nook--and to support all of NOM's important work.

(Of course if you can give more--$20, $50, or even $100--that too will double. Steve Jobs may have billions of dollars, but you and I have truth and justice on our side--let Steve Jobs know what you think of his attempt to repress Christian thought!)

More amazingly good news. Two of NOM's key founders were just named to Newsweek's list of the "New Faces of the Christian Right." Number one was NOM's founding Chairman, Prof. Robby George. And Number 4 was NOM's current Chairman Maggie Gallagher.

Maggie wrote about it in her column this week, which you can find below.

It was a little strange that so many key figures of the religious left also made that list. But we appreciate the recognition of NOM's growing role in helping you fight for marriage and religious liberty!

Prof. Robby George is truly an amazing man. And along with two of his students, he has published a most amazing defense of marriage in the Harvard Journal of Public Policy called "What is Marriage?" You can read the full copy here as PDF.

I was particularly tickled to find this passage, during these scholars' serious discussion of the ways gay marriage will harm marriage and the common good:

"The idea that support for the conjugal conception of marriage is nothing more than a form of bigotry has become so deeply entrenched among marriage revisionists that a Washington Post feature story drew denunciations and cries of journalistic bias for even implying that one conjugal-marriage advocate was 'sane' and 'thoughtful.' Outraged readers compared the profile to a hypothetical puff piece on a Ku Klux Klan member."

Remember? That was poor Monica Hesse's profile of me (!) in the Washington Post last year.

(Also, I'm going to go tell my wife I have a new job title: "Conjugal marriage advocate.")

Next week, I’d like to share more of this important essay--and the public debate it has sparked. For now, let me just mention that when a former Yale Law professor named Kenji Yoshino attempted to take on "What is Marriage?" at Slate, Matthew Franck over at National Review's Bench Memos described it as "A Swing and a Miss in Marriage Debate":

"Bottom line: Yoshino provides nothing--nothing at all--by way of an argument for including gay couples in the institution of marriage. For he provides no alternative answer to the question Girgis, George, and Anderson propound: What Is Marriage? Is this the best pro-gay-marriage folks can do?"

Wow. I've got so much more to tell you. But how much of your time can I take?

There's Newsweek's "Uncivil Rights" story, which questioned whether African-Americans' fight for civil rights can truly be equated with gay rights:

"Gays and lesbians 'may want to cast their fight in civil-rights terms, and a lot of people are buying it. But not the faith community and especially not the black community,' says Bishop Harry Jackson, whose Hope Christian Church has a flock of 3,000 in the Washington, D.C., area. Indeed, some 70 percent of African-Americans voted yes on California's Prop 8, and polls found similar levels of opposition among blacks for a marriage initiative in Florida that same year. After the Washington, D.C., City Council last year approved gay marriage in the District, Jackson joined forces with the National Organization for Marriage in petitioning the U.S. Supreme Court to allow voters to decide on overturning the law. 'Many African-Americans believe gays are discriminated against, but they don't believe marriage is a civil-rights issue,' says Jackson, who says his father was threatened at gunpoint in the 1950s by a state trooper while working on a voter-registration drive. 'There are issues of acceptance, but there is no back of the bus. . .'"

There's Iowa, where pro-gay-marriage forces are now trying to invalidate another election: the judicial retention election in which three judges lost their seats. The argument rests on the most specious technical grounds. They say the state constitution requires a "separate ballot" and the sheet of paper voters received also let them vote in other elections. So now they are back in state supreme court, asking the three justices to vote to re-install themselves on the court until a new election can be held.

Will they never respect the democratic process?

Of course, if these lawyers' theory is right and the election was invalid, then these three judges have not been retained either. They lack the authority to continue on the court. And a fourth judge who was retained two years ago, before the Iowa court decision, would have to face the voters again too, right away. Hmmm, maybe not such a bad idea!
But this does goes to show that we need need a marriage amendment in Iowa to settle this question, and we also need to fix a judicial process which has been hijacked by partisan Democrats in Iowa. Kudos to Bob Vander Plaats and Gov.-Elect Terry Branstad for fighting together on that one!

One final note on the court battle. Did you see on your nightly newscast the dramatic way Prop 8 litigator Chuck Cooper called out Olson and Boies at the press conference after oral arguments? ...No, neither did I. No news outlet saw fit to report it, so that's why I'm reporting it to you now. Click below to hear him!

Here's what he said:

"I want to pay our respects to our opponents in this case, who have presented their case with skill and with sincerity and we respect that. I regret in all candor that our opponents do not return that respect ... but rather have seen fit to demean and to ridicule those arguments.

"Our opponents ... believe that everybody on the other side of them in this debate is behaving irrationally, that no defense, no good-faith belief, can be entertained in defense of the institution of marriage which has existed, as we pointed out in the court earlier today, in every place and in every time in recorded history."

Then Cooper wound up with a swing that could not fail to miss; he batted it way over the fence:

"For the plaintiffs to prevail in this case they have to show not only that all the state and federal appellate courts that have addressed this issue, all of whom, by the way, that have upheld traditional marriage and rejected the arguments advanced today, that all of those judges rendering those decisions were irrational, that the Congress that enacted the DOMA--that all of those people were irrational, that a large majority of the population of this country is irrational and behaving not in good faith, and that Pres. Obama, for that matter, must presumably be irrational."

Cooper paused and then said, "That position, we believe, with all due respect to our opponents, is not sustainable and is not valid."

Thank you for all you do to sustain the work of NOM--and, more importantly, the fight for God's own truth about marriage.

Until next week, please pray for me, and for Chuck Cooper and for everyone who is standing tall against the campaign to brand civilized discourse as hate, to re-brand Christianity as bigotry, and to silence and marginalize millions of Americans with whom they disagree.

As Maggie said in her debate with Andrew Sullivan at Georgetown last week, "In the end truth and love will prevail over lies and hate. Not love without truth. Not truth grounded in hate, but together, I promise, in the end truth and love will prevail."

God bless you and keep you always this Advent season,

Why Did Judge Reinhardt Refuse to Recuse Himself?

Two weeks after Judge Reinhardt refused to recuse himself, he still hasn't issued the memo he promised explaining his reasoning. The mystery deepens.

15 Days Remaining for the NOM Marriage Challenge!

With 15 days left, we have just under $700,000 to go to complete our $1 Million Matching Challenge Grant by December 31. Please join us as we get
set to make 2011 our best year yet! There are a host of new opportunities ahead of us in the coming year, but we need your help to make these possibilities a reality, from rolling back same-sex marriage in New Hampshire and Iowa to passing marriage amendments in states like Pennsylvania and Indiana, plus much, much more!

Every dollar given between now and December 31 will be matched - so if youcan afford even $10 or $25 to help protect marriage this Christmas season, please join us today at 2010marriagechallenge.com.

Reclaiming the rainbow

From Dr. J at NOM's Ruth Institute:

by Becky Yeh

Dr. Jennifer Roback Morse of the San Diego-based Ruth Institute rightly argues that the rainbow is a sign of God’s covenant with man, and she says proponents of Proposition 8 – California’s measure that passed in 2008 to define marriage as between a man and a woman — are the original “rainbow coalition.”
Jennifer Roback Morse (Ruth Institute)“Proposition 8 was passed by a great grassroots coalition that included people from all across the religious traditions, and also people of every race and color,” Morse recognizes. “We are the real rainbow coalition. The gay lobby does not own the rainbow.”

She tells OneNewsNow that she wore a rainbow-colored scarf to the Ninth U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals hearing on Proposition 8 as a statement to signify that supporters of traditional marriage still own the symbol.

“We can’t simply let that go by. Families put rainbows in their children’s nurseries. Little Christian preschools will have rainbows…Noah’s Ark and all the animals…. Those are great Christian symbols, great Jewish symbols,” the Ruth Institute president points out.

She adds that marriage is an issue that goes beyond race and religion, and she encourages Christians to take back the symbol of the rainbow because it represents God’s promise to humanity.

Found here.

Breaking News: Iowa Lawyers Seek To Invalidate Judicial Retention Election Results

After the people passed Prop 8 in California, lawyers went to the California state supreme court to argue the court did NOT have to respect the election results, the people had no right to amend their own constitution. Now,  lawyers are asking the Iowa Supreme Court to invalidate the results of the election in which three judges lost their seats-- on the grounds the state constitution requires a "separate ballot."   When will they accept a fair and free vote of the people as valid?

Of course if the election to retain these three judges was not valid--then these three judges did not gain majority approval, as required by the law, to retain their seats and the seats would be vacant until a new election was held.  And isn't there a fourth judge whose judicial retention election in the past would also be invalidated and so would forced to face a new election right now?  Maybe not such a bad idea after all!